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Lulubell599
Nov 18, 2009, 09:41 PM
Okay, in my dream I am at my boyfriend's house snuggling with my ex-boyfriend under a blanket on the living room floor, getting ready for sleep or something. I'm happy and then I realize that I have another boyfriend and he might wake up, well he does and he starts heading for the living room. I try to scram away from my ex-boyfriend realizing that it's wrong, but he holds me to him and makes me feel somehow disgusted with him because of what he is saying to me. (nothing perverted, just telling me/asking me why is this wrong and holding me tight against his body) My boyfriend enters the room to grab something and leaves. He doesn't notice us lying on the floor. As soon as he leaves I punch my ex-boyfriend in the chest. No sooner after I do that do I wake up from my dream and find a startled boyfriend who has just accidentally been punched in the chest by his girlfriend.

What does this mean?

Background:
I had been with my ex-boyfriend for 4 years and I do miss him. The guy I am with now made me realize what a bad relationship I was in, but I am not so sure yet. Our dating was premature at best. I couldn't stand to be alone so I believe I moved on to fast...

Help!!

Aurora_Bell
Dec 17, 2009, 08:49 AM
Maybe it's just that... You moved on too fast.
Maybe the punching represents the frustration you feel with missing your ex? Maybe sub consciously and or consciously you are still angry with your ex, and this is you releasing that anger?
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N0help4u
Dec 18, 2009, 09:24 PM
I agree you are frustrated because you are not sure what is right for you. You want to know how it would have turned out staying with your ex but you don't want to hurt your new boyfriend.