berrysweetncgurl
Nov 18, 2009, 04:47 PM
Ok this is going to be a long one, so be patient with me.
I have a child with my first love, unfortunately my first love turned out to be a drug addict and I left him. During the breakup time I started dating one of his former co-workers, and my child's father went to jail.
When me and the co worker (Travis) started seeing each other he told me he was not ready for a relationship. Well we started seeing each other everyday and eventually it lead to us being in a relationship and telling each other we loved each other.
My little boys dad got out of jail at the end of July and I went back to him at the beginning of September because I thought he had changed, he was doing good, and I thought it was what was best for our child, to have his mom and dad back together. Travis started dating his ex girlfriend
We did OK for about 2-3 months, but I always thought about travis, every morning, every night... I missed him, but stayed with my child's father.
Well my child's father started again with the same mess, going on drug binges. I couldn't handle it anymore so I kicked him out of my house and broke up with him. The very same day Travis messaged me on myspace to tell me he was sorry for everything that happened with us and he wished it could have been different. I wrote him back and told him me and my child's father had broke up. We talked on Saturday night and Sunday night and he said he would come to see me the following day.
I never seen him that day! Turns out my child's father called him and threatened him. He told him he would burn his house down with him in it and bust all the windows out of his truck.
So after not seeing or hearing from him, I showed up at his house and asked him what was going on. We wound up having sex and afterwards he told me he just wanted to take things slow.
So that was last night and I haven't heard from him or seen him all day. I respect the fact that he wants to take things slow but how can I make him fall in love with me again the way it used to be? WE used to spend every day and night together and he was absolutely in love with me, no questions about it.
I have a child with my first love, unfortunately my first love turned out to be a drug addict and I left him. During the breakup time I started dating one of his former co-workers, and my child's father went to jail.
When me and the co worker (Travis) started seeing each other he told me he was not ready for a relationship. Well we started seeing each other everyday and eventually it lead to us being in a relationship and telling each other we loved each other.
My little boys dad got out of jail at the end of July and I went back to him at the beginning of September because I thought he had changed, he was doing good, and I thought it was what was best for our child, to have his mom and dad back together. Travis started dating his ex girlfriend
We did OK for about 2-3 months, but I always thought about travis, every morning, every night... I missed him, but stayed with my child's father.
Well my child's father started again with the same mess, going on drug binges. I couldn't handle it anymore so I kicked him out of my house and broke up with him. The very same day Travis messaged me on myspace to tell me he was sorry for everything that happened with us and he wished it could have been different. I wrote him back and told him me and my child's father had broke up. We talked on Saturday night and Sunday night and he said he would come to see me the following day.
I never seen him that day! Turns out my child's father called him and threatened him. He told him he would burn his house down with him in it and bust all the windows out of his truck.
So after not seeing or hearing from him, I showed up at his house and asked him what was going on. We wound up having sex and afterwards he told me he just wanted to take things slow.
So that was last night and I haven't heard from him or seen him all day. I respect the fact that he wants to take things slow but how can I make him fall in love with me again the way it used to be? WE used to spend every day and night together and he was absolutely in love with me, no questions about it.