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Shelbiegt1
Nov 18, 2009, 03:46 PM
Hello I am Shelbie, What rights does a young teen father to his new born baby if the mom don't want the baby?

cdad
Nov 18, 2009, 04:12 PM
What state are you in and is the child born yet ?

stevetcg
Nov 18, 2009, 05:06 PM
The same rights as if she does. He can file for visitation, custody or sole custody. He can allow or disallow an adoption.

What does the mom want to do? He has no rights if she wants an abortion, by the way.

Shelbiegt1
Nov 18, 2009, 05:53 PM
If a mother don't want to keep a new born baby (parents not married) and the dad wants to have the baby, can a mother keep the baby away from the dad? ( no danger for the dad) She don't want to let the dad have the baby, wants to give it to a family member.

J_9
Nov 18, 2009, 05:54 PM
Sorry, but the father has a right to decide who the baby can go to. If he wants it and she doesn't guess where that baby goes. To the father.

Synnen
Nov 18, 2009, 05:57 PM
I have to say here that if the child isn't born yet, he needs to get on the putative father listing in his state (if his state has one) and get a lawyer. If she decides that she REALLY wants to do an adoption, she'll lie about who the father is, and then he'd have to fight to have the adoption overturned. So often, that takes enough time that the adoptive parents and child have bonded--and a court may rule in favor of leaving the child where it is, as being in the best interest of the child.

Nine times out of ten, if the birthmother can't choose adoption over the father raising the child, she decides to parent after all.

Shelbiegt1
Nov 18, 2009, 05:58 PM
Fl, yes the baby was born 11-17-09

Shelbiegt1
Nov 18, 2009, 06:00 PM
What state are you in and is the child born yet ?

Yes the baby was born 11-17-09 State is FL

J_9
Nov 18, 2009, 06:01 PM
Fl, yes the baby was born 11-17-09

Then the father has the same rights as the mother does.

J_9
Nov 18, 2009, 06:03 PM
I have to say here that if the child isn't born yet,

The child was born November 17, 2009...

Found here... https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family-law/new-born-417269.html

cdad
Nov 18, 2009, 06:12 PM
The father needs to go to court right away and prevent the mother from performing a baby drop off. That way he can assert his rights as soon as the courts give them to him.

Safe Haven Laws.

http://www.childwelfare.gov/systemwi.../safehaven.cfm



Its sad but under laws like these the fathers have almost no rights once the child is turned over.