Boristheblade
Nov 18, 2009, 09:04 AM
This question is about a platonic relationship with another female friend.
I am very close friends with a girl I've met since starting university. However, a problem keeps cropping up.
She has another close friend, and for some reason, though we've never really spoken, she has told my friend she doesn't like me and doesn't want to be with her when I'm there, though I've said I don't mind if she's around.
There's a big night tonight and naturally I want to go with my best friend, here, but she has said her other friend asked her before me so she's going to go with her and I can't because she doesn't like me. This got me angry and we started arguing because from my point of view I am not the one has created a problem so I don't see why I have to suffer from it and have to book my own friend in advance to make sure that someone that doesn't like me and whose presence means I can't go out with her doesn't ask her first.
What should I do? :confused:
I am very close friends with a girl I've met since starting university. However, a problem keeps cropping up.
She has another close friend, and for some reason, though we've never really spoken, she has told my friend she doesn't like me and doesn't want to be with her when I'm there, though I've said I don't mind if she's around.
There's a big night tonight and naturally I want to go with my best friend, here, but she has said her other friend asked her before me so she's going to go with her and I can't because she doesn't like me. This got me angry and we started arguing because from my point of view I am not the one has created a problem so I don't see why I have to suffer from it and have to book my own friend in advance to make sure that someone that doesn't like me and whose presence means I can't go out with her doesn't ask her first.
What should I do? :confused: