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ceilobabe
Nov 15, 2009, 12:58 AM
I have a boyfriend and we broke up from a couple of days now. I was angry from him because of his ignorance and his always with his friends this past few months which is his not doing before, he always have an excuse when I want to see him.. I don't know but I feel that he change, I always doubting that he has another lady but until now I'm not sure if he really has.. one time I check on his mobile and I saw that he send message to someone and he give his e-mail add which I don't know that he has, then I create new email add also then I add him, I don't know but he felt that's its me so maybe he did not flirt on me.. then we have this arguments, I say bad words to him which I should not do but I did because of my anger, and I know his angry from me right now... I say sorry to him already but his not responding on my message, I even called him but his not answering, now that his not around I mean now that his ignoring me, I felt like I'm alone... I realize that I love him and I want him back, but I don't know what should I do... I want to do things that will make him forgive me, not only by saying sorry but I want something romantic to get him back.. please anyone help me, I love this guy so much and I want him back!:o

Cat1864
Nov 15, 2009, 03:42 AM
You can't make someone forgive you. Trying to manipulate someone into forgiving you will only push them farther away.

I think you need to give him the space and time that he obviously needs to forgive you on his own if he ever does.

Honestly, I think you should try to live your own life and forget him. It sounds like he was already having doubts about the relationship by the way he was starting to spend more time with his friends.

Give yourself time and space to heal.

I wish
Nov 15, 2009, 07:29 AM
His behavior sounds like he slowly away from you to the point that you broke up. This happens. Feelings change. You're just going to accept it.

You can't "get" him back. He has to "want" you back too. It's a two-way street.

Since he doesn't feel the same way, then you got to respect his feelings and move on. Go your separate ways and find someone else who feels the same way about you.

mmresd
May 11, 2012, 04:22 PM
It is time for you to accept his decision and move on. His feelings are not the same as yours, the sooner you understand that, the sooner you will start healing from this.