My friend and his girlfriend had sex I don't know when and yesterday she told him she was pregnant, and he's freaking out and doesn't know what to do.

Depending on her decision I would suggest he starts saving...

Depending on their ages,when to tell family and parents.

The deed is done,whatever the choices made they both have to live with the consequences of their actions.


Edit ( when I say her decision,that is depended on a lot of factors,age,circumstanes etc)

His parents kicked him out of his house

Sorry to hear that. Do you have a question for us? This is a Q&A site, not a chat room.

What should I do to help him?

what should i do to help him?

If he has no where to stay you can look for youth shelters in your area.They may also be able to help with the current problems he is having by referring him and his girlfriend to services for pregnant teens.

Perhaps your parents would let him stay with you until this blows over, but I would get some sort of parental consent ,just to protect your parents legally.

Just support him and find an adult who you trust that can intervene for him with his parents.Throwing him out is no solution to the problem.

You're a good friend,just continue to be there.Sometimes all we can do is listen and let people get things off their chest.

But his girlfriend kicked out of her house a well

What happened to the girl.. its her who needs a lot of help and support now.

Listen to artlady, help them find a youth shelter or get them to talk to a school counselor who can help them. The best thing you can do right now is be there for them and help them find resources to help themselves.

I'm now supporting them my friend was able to afford a room and I'm living with them, I help his girlfriend when he's at work

How old are all of you?

16 by all accounts...

To the op.. are there ANY adults involved in this situation?

So let me see if I'm understanding you. All 3 of you are 16 and living in an apartment together? Are you going to school? Work? How do you support yourselves? WHERE ARE THE PARENTS?

I have to say, it is the stupidest thing that any parent could do to kick a 16 year old child out while they are pregnant.
Sure they could argue that "if they want to act like adults, they can live like adults" But at 16, you're still babies yourselves. Heck, I'm 19 and I'm still not ready to leave because I can't support myself financially.
This is a big mess.