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th0329
Nov 10, 2009, 06:59 PM
O.K. so me and this girl got together before this past Summer. She is 19 and I am 21. We had that immediate connection, and fell in love from the get go. She was a wonderful girlfriend, and I truly did fall in love with her very quickly. Our families fell in love with the both of us, her siblings called me their best friend, we never ever argued, it was truly a magical scenario.

Then one day about two weeks ago, she tells me that she is staying an extra night at her school, before she comes to spend the night with me. Well I do over react, and it was due to the ffact that I missed her so terribly much. She breaks up with me, and says that I rely on her too much.

We spend a week apart, hardly any talking or anything, and we meet up for her birthday at home this past weekend. Well naturally we begin to talk about things, and she says that she wants to get back together with me, but it wouldn't be fair, because she would be spiteful because I broke her heart. She comes back to see me the Sunday before we both go back to school and she kisses me, tells me she loves me so much, and that we will get back together soon enough. So I start to head back to my school, and I get a call from her. We talked for 3 hours, laughed and everything, great conversation. And she says she wants to stay in touch everyday, so we can try and keep this going

Well these past two days, she has not called or texted or anything. I even tried to chat with her on Facebook, and no reply. So I need to know if I should stick around or just move on. Cause when we are together, she is the perfect girl for me. I am just getting mixed signals...

I wish
Nov 10, 2009, 07:16 PM
Don't contact her anymore. You've already made multiple attempts. So now the ball is on her side of the court.

Go do your own thing. Let her make the next move.