Hi I been with my girl for almost five years now and its great but things are not the best I bed I get off to fast like 20 to 30sec I try to get hard again but no go for hours then boom I get off just as fast we try to go slow like kiss touch but it makes it worse then I tried to just going at it and she didn't like it cause there was no love there it was just sex she don't like going down at all but when she does it last a lot longer we been haven a bad time now we been apart then back together and she just told me she had sex with someone else now when were together I feel like its to small and I'm not good enough for her now that's why she sleep with him but she says not so I tried to think about the worst thing ever while in bed still get off way to fast and now I'm deppresed cause I'm woryed that she is not happy wit our sex so please help me is there any meds that will help anything please

How old are you?

How old are you?

I'm 27

I think a lot of your problem is mental.

First off, this girl probably isn't very good for you, with the description of your relationship with her. I think the uncertainty of the relationship has a lot to do with things.