Ok so here's the story. Recently I moved to Mexico I am becoming a nail technician and well I live on my own. My aunt and her boyfriend decided that they were going to come stay with me so that I wouldn't feel lonely. I have a boyfriend here in Mexico and we've been dating for a year now and I love him so much we have great chemistry and can talk about anything. We decided... well we didn't really decide it just sort of happened we had sex. For me it was the perfect moment cause I love him so much and I see how much he cares and loves me. Well it turns out that my aunt found out and she freaked out on me. I am 21 and my boyfriend is 24 we're not little kids anymore. She got real upset and said that I ruined my life that from now on I am going to live miserably because I am prostituting myself. Its not like I am the only person who's had sex with their boyfriend. I don't even know what to say to her anymore she is the type of person who is really religious, well she became religious about 4 yrs ago so this totally freaks her out. What should I do how can I talk to here to make here understand that I love my boyfriend and that's why it happened I'm not a prostitute.

First question... Do her and her boyfriend have sex?

Iam pretty sure they do.

You re old enough to make your own decisions about your own life.
Its not her business and politely tell her so.

Make your own decisions as it is your life. You are not going to please everyone, either they like it or they don't

You can't convince her and why should you try? You are an adult and should stand up proud behind all your decisions. Trying to make decisions to make other people happy is fruitless and will make you miserable.

If you thought it was right, you thought it was what you wanted to do, and you are happy, and no one else is involved... ie children, then agree to disagree with her.

SHe sounds like a zealot and hypocritical.

So does it really bother you ? I would assume you already knew of her values and also know that not everyone accepts sex without marriage

What a hypocrite, she has a live in boyfriend but berates you. Tell her to either shut up, or move.