What are your thoughts on booty calls? Bad? Should I avoid them? Should I take advantage of them? :D

Booty calls are good when you've already had casual sex with that person and got good chemistry.. but make sure you wrap it up! Hahaha

Nice!! Thanks!! LoL

Using people isn't such a nice thing though.

Booty calls means using people? Sorry, but I'm from another country and I learned about booty calls here (USA).

Nooo... but when two people use eachother there's an understanding. Just make sure the other person knows what's up. Kthnxbi

Just make sure the other person knows whats up. kthnxbiYep, that's where I was going with that. Some people will lead the other person on to score the booty call then drop them like a hot potato.

The issue is do both parties understand it is merely a no commitment sexual encounter. Or does one want or hope for more and the other is letting the one believe it could be.

Booty calls are never a bad thing unless your cheating on someone, lying to someone or hurting someone. But other than that? Go for it. Who ever said sex on demand with strings was a bad thing? My personal experience with booty calls didn't always turn out how I wanted it to but that was because me or the other person allowed our feelings to get in the way. Best advice I can give you is to keep it casual, be basic and don't be afraid to broden your horizons. Sex is sex. So booty calls are never a bad thing:)

The problem with booty calls are they are never straight forward,somewhere along the lines someone forms an attachment or is not careful using contraception and it all goes up the swaney...

If its just sex,that meaning you in,no talk apart from the weather and the price of eggs,do the job get dressed and say goodbye,well fair enough,although even using this method people still get confused...

When the small talk and cups of tea and niceities come into play,people get hurt.

Its not just sex... the act itself releases hormones for a good reason,to get attached,to procreate... its just biology.

Being on both ends of a booty call,and at 37 years of age,and not living in a cave all my life.I don't think I have ever come across a straight forward booty call.

Starting with a couple of definitions:

Booty Call: having sex with someone you are not in a relationship with just for sexual release. Neither person has any hold on the other person. In a lot of cases that includes friendship.

Friends with benefits: friends who are not in a romantic or committed relationship (with each other or others) having sex together for the sake of having sex.

With the number of incurable sexually transmitted diseases around and that there is a chance (however small) of a child being created every time a woman has sex (unless her ovaries have been fully removed or it's a lesbian relationship), I do not believe in sex for entertainment between people who are not committed to each other. Unless there is that commitment, you can't be sure what STDs the other person may be bringing to the bed. You also should think ahead to what happens if the unwanted occurs and you get pregnant.

If you get your kicks then do it. Just work on those night moves.

The worst part about it all is when it stops.

If you like taking a chance of contracting Herpes, AIDS, (neither has a cure) or any number of other STD's, Or have a child from someone you can't easily know for sure which, then buy all means, have as many booty calls as you want.

Very helpful!! Thanks a lot!

Wow! It is true that someone always gets attached and wants more than what the other wants. Im against Booty Calls. I don't think its cool. Of course if you are single and that other person is single (that you want the booty call from) I guess its fine.

Booty calls are GREAT when both parties understand its only a booty call. Nothing more, nothing less. If you,plan to use someone as a booty call and they aren't aware feeling may get involved and problems will arise. I suggest u make sure you both are on the same page first.