Boxelder box keep getting in the house AND I TELL MY WIFE THERE KNOWTHING I CAN DO ABOUT IT they come through v ery small holes is there a way to get rid of them

I don't know. Would they go away if you cut the box elders down and planted some longer lived trees? Can you spray them in their habitat? Diazion (SP) maybe banned now. You used to be able to sprinkle it around your foundation to keep out ants and fleas. Ask at a garden supply for it, and maybe they have a replacement. Might work on your bugs too.