wicked215
Oct 30, 2009, 04:17 AM
Over the past year I have become a very confused male 18 year old.
I became very good friends with another male the same age as me about this time last year and he is the person that I would regard myself closest to out of all my other friends. I can tell him everything, and he tells me everything.
But the thing that is confusing me is that I don't know if he is gay or not. He is always hugging me, sitting on my lap and if I'm just sitting on a bed he will always come over to me and lay on top of me. Also, he always likes to be next to me if we are in a big group of people and things like that. Recently, we have started holding hands in quite romantic ways, which is nice at first, but then It sort of just hits me what I'm doing.
However, it never seems like he is joking around. I always sort of go along with it but I've started to really think about it in more depth.
I have spoken to him before about it and he said that it's nice to have someone that he can be this close to and trust enough to do stuff like we do. But then he is still very much attracted to girls.
I just need some opinions on what to do,
Thanks
I became very good friends with another male the same age as me about this time last year and he is the person that I would regard myself closest to out of all my other friends. I can tell him everything, and he tells me everything.
But the thing that is confusing me is that I don't know if he is gay or not. He is always hugging me, sitting on my lap and if I'm just sitting on a bed he will always come over to me and lay on top of me. Also, he always likes to be next to me if we are in a big group of people and things like that. Recently, we have started holding hands in quite romantic ways, which is nice at first, but then It sort of just hits me what I'm doing.
However, it never seems like he is joking around. I always sort of go along with it but I've started to really think about it in more depth.
I have spoken to him before about it and he said that it's nice to have someone that he can be this close to and trust enough to do stuff like we do. But then he is still very much attracted to girls.
I just need some opinions on what to do,
Thanks