Maddie123
Oct 26, 2009, 06:55 PM
I'll be 17 in a little more than a month, my boyfriend is 19, and his friend is 22. Okay so Saturday night me and my boyfriend got into an argument that got somewhat physical. I didn't hit him, but he hit and then shoved me against a wall. He was going to hit me again, but his friend was there and pulled him back. His friend threatened to call the cops if my boyfriend didn't calm down.
After that I said I wanted to go home. And his friend drove me home. He came inside with me to see if I was okay. (My parents weren't home, but at that point I didn't really care) And we talked for a while and then almost out of no where he kissed me and I pushed him away and told him I couldn't do that. Then he said something like this "Don't worry about that jerk, he doesnt care about you anyways" Well that made me kind of mad but then I figured maybe it was true and then he kissed me again, and I kissed him back this time, mostly out of anger.
Well one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. Well somewhere in the middle of this I started feeling really uncomfortable and he was starting to hurt me. I asked him to stop a few times, but there was no response from him and he continued. Eventually he told me to shut up and let him finish. So I tried to push him off, and then he pressed himself against me and covered my mouth until he finished.
After that I went to the bathroom and I was bleeding. So I showered and changed... which I probably shouldn't have done, but I felt disgusting. When I went back into my bedroom he was still there. And he hugged me and told me he was really sorry and didn't know what had gotten into him. Well I asked him to leave. And he did.
Now yesterday I told someone I thought was my friend what had happened. She completely blew me off. And told me how I should have called her, and she would have picked me up. And none of this would have happened. And she basically made it all out to be all my fault. Which yes some of it might have been, but not everything. And all day yesterday I'd been thinking about it and I haven't told anyone else because of what my (ex) friend told me. So what's your opinion on this? Since I consented to this in the beginning, would this be considered as rape?
And I'm not asking this question to press charges or anything. I just wanted to know. And depending on what you guys think, is how I'm going to decide whether to tell my mom (I want her to take me to see a doctor). And I already know my parents might be really mad at me for this, esecially my dad if he finds out! =(
After that I said I wanted to go home. And his friend drove me home. He came inside with me to see if I was okay. (My parents weren't home, but at that point I didn't really care) And we talked for a while and then almost out of no where he kissed me and I pushed him away and told him I couldn't do that. Then he said something like this "Don't worry about that jerk, he doesnt care about you anyways" Well that made me kind of mad but then I figured maybe it was true and then he kissed me again, and I kissed him back this time, mostly out of anger.
Well one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. Well somewhere in the middle of this I started feeling really uncomfortable and he was starting to hurt me. I asked him to stop a few times, but there was no response from him and he continued. Eventually he told me to shut up and let him finish. So I tried to push him off, and then he pressed himself against me and covered my mouth until he finished.
After that I went to the bathroom and I was bleeding. So I showered and changed... which I probably shouldn't have done, but I felt disgusting. When I went back into my bedroom he was still there. And he hugged me and told me he was really sorry and didn't know what had gotten into him. Well I asked him to leave. And he did.
Now yesterday I told someone I thought was my friend what had happened. She completely blew me off. And told me how I should have called her, and she would have picked me up. And none of this would have happened. And she basically made it all out to be all my fault. Which yes some of it might have been, but not everything. And all day yesterday I'd been thinking about it and I haven't told anyone else because of what my (ex) friend told me. So what's your opinion on this? Since I consented to this in the beginning, would this be considered as rape?
And I'm not asking this question to press charges or anything. I just wanted to know. And depending on what you guys think, is how I'm going to decide whether to tell my mom (I want her to take me to see a doctor). And I already know my parents might be really mad at me for this, esecially my dad if he finds out! =(