Appx 1 year ago, I was a booty call to my friend Keith. Since then we stopped having sex because he said that he felt awkward and that he might get attached. We talk 1-2 time a week in person, and email every other day. I've met him mom and been on several road trips with him... no sex involved just friends. We do have our moments of tension, but we both turn them off for the sake of how well we get along.

My question is this... to all the guys... is it really possible that he likes me for me and wanted me to stay around and he thinks that sex with him would eventually make me leave him and that;s why he stopped it? Or does he just have a madonna whore complex and doesn't see me the same way. Do men really like to have a girl around that they would like to be in a relationship with even if they are scared to take it to that point? He only has sex with strangers for the past year, I think he prefers to pick up girls and then never talk to them again... like he said, he doesn't become attached. Just show me some insight on this. Thanks

Men may like variety even from the cavemen times. Not all, mid you but for some that's built in. Many men are afraid of commitment.

Femals from cavemen times want a good man to father their kids and be a good provider.

It's really the nature vs. nurture thing.

It's hard to find a female for men to be "friends" with. Similarly it goes the same way. Once people marry or become involved in a relationship, usually the spouse and the kid become the focus. There are countless times where members of the opposite sex are excluded once a relationship becomes serious.

There are exceptions when the company is preferred, but the physical attraction is not there.

What's unique in your situationis that you have ad sex and nor are "friends". Usually doesn't work that way.

It does sound like his view of sex is somewhat skewed towards the "player" attitude.

That he wants your friendship more than sex with you is, in his somewhat twisted mind, a compliment.

If you guys ever do grow into a bf/gf relationship, do the medical tests. "Players" these days are much less safe than skydivers or fighters.