Hey. I've been with my girlfriend for 4 months now. There are times when we get very intimate. But there's only one problem. She's a virgin. We have done everything else besides actually engage in sex. There have been many times where we got close, but she never lets it happen. There are even times where we take off ALL of our clothes and grind on each other and she still won't let it happen. Can anyone tell me or give me something on why this is happening?. it confuses me alot:confused:

Can you give your ages? It will help other posters give you the right advice.

Well first of all you should ask her first. Doesn't that make sense? Secondly, it's obvious she just doesn't feel like doing it yet. You are going to have to ask her. There's nothing anybody else can say except guess different reasons she doesn't let you. Just ask her. Learn to communicate. Speak gently and calm and respect what she says. Let us know.

She doesn't want to give you her virginity, would be my first guess, or is afraid of getting pregnant. How old are you anyway?