There is this guy that I am friends with. We talk to each other and stuff like that. Recently he asked me to go out with him and I said yes. Then I told him that I couldn't that week (as I don't like him that much).

He is getting so obsessed. He sends messages all the time and stuff like that.
He asks me at what time I did get in bed the day before and where did I go, with whom and what I did.
I am getting so turned off as I'm not made of plastic (he treats me like I don't know how to take care of myself! And I'm not his doll too! ) so he has no right to control me.

He says that he does it because he likes me and cares and he is different from other boys.

I'm SO FED UP with this game. They all make themselves look perfect until they gain your trust, they use you and leave you there all alone. Then you realize that they were acting it all up! It's so unbelievable.

Can somebody tell me how can I get rid of this boy? (he lives close to me so I have to face him and tell him but I don't know how to put the words) :confused:

Why did you agree when you were just going to blow him off because you didn't really like him that much. (That, by the way, is a game also).

Time to fess up that you aren't interested in dating him and figure out how you are going to leave him alone and ask him to leave you alone.

I would gather that your parents have an unstable relationship, your thoughts about guys, control and being used are going to be baggage that keeps you from a healthy and functioning relationship. I would suggest counseling.

My parents have an okey relationship. The thing is they always bring me down and insult me and tell me that I am useless.
My brothers are also a pain in the *ss.

I never used to believe that I was useless but now it's tearing me apart and I am losing all the interest in dating, studying and going out.

I feel like staying in a room all alone because everybody hates me!

PS. I'm no emo!

I feel like staying in a room all alone because everybody hates me!!


Doesn't sound like this guy hates you. Are you sure you just aren't taking his questions the wrong way since the way your family talks to you? These are all pretty normal questions when you are trying to get to know someone. But I agree with Justwantfair if you are not interested you should tell him. I am curious what does he do to make you think you can't take care of yourself?

He keeps asking at what time I got in the night before, at what time did I turned off my computer and stuff like that.

I feel that he is overprotective =S