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The_Asker
Oct 23, 2009, 08:08 AM
I'm 12, around 5'1-5'2 and am about 46 kilos, about 7 stone 3 pounds.
Ever since I watched a program about Britains rising obesity levels on BBC3, I've felt the strange desire to gain weight.
I don't know what to do.
If I did, I would be worried of what other people would say and think. There was a point where, when I was about 10 or 11, when I was getting bigger fast. I lost a bit though.
I would be scared of what people would say, the snidey comments.
Is 220 Ibs overweight for a 20-30 year old?
Please help,
I need advice on to do it and how to do it without noticing!
Or not to.

JudyKayTee
Oct 23, 2009, 09:34 AM
Am I reading this right? Are you asking if 2320 pounds is overweight for a 20-30 year old person who is 5'1" or 5'2"?

I honestly don't know what your question is - you watched a program on obesity and now you want to be obese? Are you looking for attention and this is the only way to get it?

Again - I'm not sure what you are saying.

The_Asker
Oct 23, 2009, 10:22 AM
No, about 6'3.
I don't want to be obese.
Im jw if I should gain weight because I want to know what it feels like to be OW.

The_Asker
Oct 24, 2009, 08:45 AM
Im just wondering, because if so I might try and gain up to that weight when Im older.
Im 5'2 now, and 12 so ill probably get to about there. I find being overweight or fat erotic for some reason. Just wondering if it will cause any major health issues.
I've always wanted to be fat my whole life, wondering what it would feel like to play with flab. Sounds fun ;)

stevetcg
Oct 24, 2009, 08:49 AM
220 is healthy 'enough' if you are up around 6 feet. Not horrible. That puts your BMI in the 30s... not optimum but not death inspiring either.

I suspect you will stop finding it erotic as you grow up and find out how much weight affects your life.

stevetcg
Oct 24, 2009, 08:55 AM
It feels like crap.

My advice to you would be seeking psychological help. Your line of thinking is not healthy.

JudyKayTee
Oct 24, 2009, 09:01 AM
Should be combined with other thread - OP is either obsessing or a troll as the other thread is a clear cry for attention. https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/weight-loss/gaining-weight-not-sure-if-want-408907.html

Also is 12 YEARS OLD and on the adult board, taking up space and time from people who have legitimate questions.

JudyKayTee
Oct 24, 2009, 09:04 AM
OP is clearly obessed with this issue - or a troll who finds it "erotic" to "play" with flab, presumably his own. Maybe this should be posted on the masturbation board (if there is such a thing).

Also, OP is 12 YEARS on an adult board, taking up space from people with serious concerns.
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/weight-loss/220ibs-healthy-weight-511-a-409167.html#post2049260