Clough
Oct 21, 2009, 07:22 PM
Hi, Elektramoon!
When someone will get a boyfriend could depend on many factors.
How old are you, please? It would be helpful for us to know that.
Thanks!
jaime90
Oct 22, 2009, 09:40 AM
You seem anxious to have a boyfriend. Don't be! It will happen when it happens. Try your best to ignore the pressure to be in a relationship- if you do, you'll begin to think with your head not with your emotions. If you get into a relationship because you're just anxious to throw yourself at the next guy who pays you some attention, you could end up with a guy that pays you attention- but really wants to take advantage of you, has issues, is on the rebound, etc.
I actually know a girl who was starved for male attention- she dated the first guy that asked her out for 3 weeks, they became engaged, and they both had a terrible break-up just months later.
So you want to think about how serious you are about a relationship. Is it for life, is it just for your own happieness and security, or is it just for fun? You want to make sure that you won't end up messing with a guys emotions.