It sounds to me like you were a victim (yes, VICTIM) of our credit system's predatory lending and marketing practices. Lesson learned: Credit is for emergencies, school, cars and houses. Nothing else!
Anyway, I am not lecturing you but the creditor. They are thieves for engaging you in a voluntary debtors prison as student with no income or prospects.
If you are in collections, do what I would do:
DON'T PAY THEM A DIME!
Debt beggars and creditor thieves are the devil. What's the first rule when dealing with the devil? (Don't.)
You need to pay your student loans and only your loans, unless you have other secured debt. Sure, learn the lessons; but, know that they intentionally stacked the deck against you!
There are ways of dealing with collection agencies and debt buyers, both a useless industry operating in a society where their most useful tools have been banned.
Go to budhibbs.com and use his Cease & Desist letter. His site is good reading, and he is a trusted mentor.
If you give me more of your situation, I can give you more specific credit information. Your credit is also repairable.
If you want a list of banks that will not check ChexSystems or credit files, let me know.
Jon
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The preceding is not legal advice, is not from a licensed debt counselor, and is not provided to persons from states which providing such information requires a license.