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Fr_Chuck
Oct 16, 2009, 01:07 PM
AS Judy caught on one of my answers, so I figured I would tell my family first, and sad as it may be in real life, this group here is about all the family I have except for my grown children.
But I will be getting married again ( OK I know I have been warned) on Dec 7 th.
And for those that like the funny side of it, I am going to marry my ex wife again. Over the last few months we have went back to counseling and have a totally new aspect and view on our relationship.
Curlyben
Oct 16, 2009, 01:09 PM
Way to go Chuck..
JudyKayTee
Oct 16, 2009, 01:10 PM
Ah, hah! That's EXACTLY why I get paid to do investigations!
I'm glad for you... and for her. I don't think anyone should be alone and it sounds like you've fixed what was broken.
I think it's great and on a personal note - I wish I would meet someone. However, if I EVER post I'm reconciling with MY ex I want you to drive here and slap some sense into me.
Fr_Chuck
Oct 16, 2009, 01:11 PM
Way to go Chuck..
Hummm have to wonder which way?? But thanks not a easy choice, but this is one tha is not the norm for our advice, and I have to say it has a lot to do with the book I have been pushing on the relationshp pages latey, "Love Languages" it made even me look at a relationship in a totally different way.
Fr_Chuck
Oct 16, 2009, 01:16 PM
Ah, hah! That's EXACTLY why I get paid to do investigations!
I'm glad for you ... and for her. I don't think anyone should be alone and it sounds like you've fixed what was broken.
I think it's great and on a personal note - I wish I would meet someone. However, if I EVER post I'm reconciling with MY ex I want you to drive here and slap some sense into me.
Still own the weighted gloves. Yes it was funny, all of her friends always told her I was still in love with her, I guess from the way I treated her when we were together for our sons events. Then of course she was somewhat jealous when I was getting closer to someone else a few months back.
So after a lot of disucssion we decided to at least go to counseling to help see where we both were at.
And the fact she is a much younger beautiful sexy women who used to be a college cheer leader had nothing to do with it either.
But seriously it shows that anything is possible.
JudyKayTee
Oct 16, 2009, 01:45 PM
And I repeat - if I EVER think about reconciling with my ex...
artlady
Oct 16, 2009, 01:48 PM
My uncle married my aunt twice and the second time was a charm.
Better to get it right the second time around.Many congrats!
redhed35
Oct 16, 2009, 01:50 PM
Congrats to you and your bride.
Excellent.
Fr_Chuck
Oct 16, 2009, 02:02 PM
I just hope I have not disappointed 1000's of my single women readers
** yea like I have them
I did get reconised once ( that was when I took my photo off here) they thought I was a nutcase and went off on me in a store
J_9
Oct 16, 2009, 03:29 PM
Congrats Chuck! The second time's a charm!
ScottGem
Oct 16, 2009, 03:33 PM
On December 7th?? You are getting married on Pearl Harbor day? A day that will live in infamy. And this is supposed to be a good omen for a marriage.
Congrats and good luck. You will need it for that day ;)
rockie100
Oct 16, 2009, 03:49 PM
That's great! By the way, I have the book Love Languages. It's a great read and has opened my eyes quite a bit. Side note: I have started dating my ex boyfriend of 3 years. We have been apart for 2 years. I have grown in my understanding of how to run a heathly and happy relationship since then. Hope the best for both of you.
Rockie
Wondergirl
Oct 16, 2009, 03:59 PM
I thought you seemed softer and happier lately! Now I know why!
Congratulations!
Stringer
Oct 16, 2009, 05:03 PM
I am happily married for the second time, not that I was too happy the first time. But I learned lessons during and after my first marriage that changed my life. It is sweeter the second time around, never have I been happier or more content.
Congratulations Chuck, I wish you a very happy life.
Stringer
earl237
Oct 16, 2009, 05:05 PM
Congratulations Fr_Chuck! I wish you and your bride all the best. I'll think about you on Dec 7th. "Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men."
danielnoahsmommy
Oct 16, 2009, 05:07 PM
Congrats!
Fr_Chuck
Oct 17, 2009, 09:12 AM
On December 7th???? You are getting married on Pearl Harbor day? A day that will live in infamy. And this is supposed to be a good omen for a marriage.
Congrats and good luck. You will need it for that day ;)
Yes, I was born on the day the Titanic sank ( not the same year of course) and Dec 7 was when I was adopted
nikosmom
Oct 17, 2009, 09:20 AM
yes, I was born on the day the Titanic sank ( not the same year of course) and Dec 7 was when I was adopted
LOL!
Congrats Chuck and I hope this time ends happily ever after! :)
mudweiser
Oct 17, 2009, 09:20 AM
I don't know what the past was like with her but she must be some lady that you'd want to marry her again ;)
Good luck Chuck and congrats :)
Sarah
friend4u178
Oct 17, 2009, 01:23 PM
Congrats Chuck
Hope it all works out for you.
Cat1864
Oct 17, 2009, 05:52 PM
Congratulations, Chuck. :)
I am so happy for both of you.
88sunflower
Oct 18, 2009, 06:53 PM
Well congrats chuck. That's wonderful news. I am so happy for you both and wish you many years of happiness.
Alty
Oct 27, 2009, 05:19 PM
How did I miss this thread?
Chuck, you're leaving me? I thought we had something special. I thought I was your one and only!
Sigh.
Oh all right then, go on, get married, be happy, see if I care. ;)
Really though, congrats, I'm really happy for you. :)
I guess it's just me and Exy now. Exy, I'm all yours, Chuck found someone else!
Stringer
Oct 27, 2009, 06:03 PM
How did I miss this thread?
Chuck, you're leaving me? I thought we had something special. I thought I was your one and only!
Sigh.
Oh all right then, go on, get married, be happy, see if I care. ;)
Really though, congrats, I'm really happy for you. :)
I guess it's just me and Exy now. Exy, I'm all yours, Chuck found someone else!
:eek::eek::rolleyes: and... :confused:
Sigh...
Stringer
Fr_Chuck
Oct 27, 2009, 06:10 PM
I guess I should make it a internet wedding, do a cam cast of some sort.
But we did have to change the date, after talking with the pastor everyone talked me out of Dec 7 ( still like that date) and we changed it to Thanksgiving.
Alty
Oct 27, 2009, 06:32 PM
:
Sigh....
Stringer
You're already married Stringer, Exy is single. :)
Wait... I'm married too. I almost forgot about whatshisname. :eek: ;) :p
Alty
Oct 27, 2009, 06:33 PM
I guess I should make it a internet wedding, do a cam cast of some sort.
But we did have to change the date, after talking with the pastor everyone talked me out of Dec 7 ( still like that date) and we changed it to Thanksgiving.
An internet wedding would be cool, but if you can't pull it off at least take lots of pictures for us.
I really am happy for you Chuck.
JudyKayTee
Oct 28, 2009, 09:34 AM
I guess I should make it a internet wedding, do a cam cast of some sort.
But we did have to change the date, after talking with the pastor everyone talked me out of Dec 7 ( still like that date) and we changed it to Thanksgiving.
I think it should be an AMHD reunion!
(And I like Dec 7, too.)
Absolutely true story - a co-worker of mine got married on Thanksgiving and said that way the groom would never forget their wedding anniversary. I didn't have the heart to tell her that Thanksgiving is not like Christmas where it's a set date.
Duhh!
Alty
Oct 28, 2009, 09:01 PM
I think it should be an AMHD reunion!
(And I like Dec 7, too.)
Absolutely true story - a co-worker of mine got married on Thanksgiving and said that way the groom would never forget their wedding anniversary. I didn't have the heart to tell her that Thanksgiving is not like Christmas where it's a set date.
Duhh!
I really wish I could rep you for that Judy.
I love it.
I'm the one that forgets anniversaries, hubby never does. He even brings home flowers on the day we apparently met, sometime in March I believe. ;)
asking
Oct 28, 2009, 09:16 PM
Congratulations, Chuck! I hope it's a great wedding and the second time is sweet and happy. :)
We'll raise a glass to you out here in California on Thanksgiving.
(As for me, I'm with Judy on this topic. If I ever say I'm going back, stage an intervention, stat.)
Alty
Oct 28, 2009, 09:23 PM
Congratulations, Chuck! I hope it's a great wedding and the second time is sweet and happy. :)
We'll raise a glass to you out here in California on Thanksgiving.
(As for me, I'm with Judy on this topic. If I ever say I'm going back, stage an intervention, stat.)
If you live in California I'll stage an intervention just so I can visit. ;)