Well me and my ex boyfriend have been off and on. But once he broke up with me. I started to realize the actual love I have for him. We still talk and we are friends. But I still love him. Hes isn't the best boyfriend but he's been the sweetest. Today I was texting him so I text " can i ask you a question" and he text " ask" so I text " What ever happen to us" and he never text back. Now what to do? Should I tell him how I feel? I tried to get over him but I cant. What do you guys think?

Well me and my ex boyfriend have been off and on. But once he broke up with me. I started to realize the actual love I have for him. We still talk and we are friends. But I still love him. Hes isn't the best boyfriend but he's been the sweetest. Today I was texting him so I text " can i ask you a question" and he text " ask" so I text " What ever happen to us" and he never text back. Now what to do? Should I tell him how I feel? I tried to get over him but I cant. What do you guys think?

You remind me of myself in my last relationship.

I think it is more of "lust" and experience of having him so closely in your life that you miss. Not the factual relationship itself. For instance;

A baby isn't playing with a toy, but once you take away the toy, the baby suddenly misses the toy and wants the toy back because the baby is not used to not having the toy in its life.

It is like trying a new activity, you are scared of the unknown. This causes you too reach out and grab something that you are familiar with. As well, you two not being together has made you realize that he will not be stepped on and is seemed as a challenge to get him back in the back of your mind.

Now answering your question;


What do you guys think?


Hes isnt the best boyfriend

^ Out of the 3.25 BILLION males on this earth, you want to settle for one who doesn't satisfy your needs of what a "boyfriend" should be? :confused:


" What ever happen to us" and he never text back.

He is not interested in you, he is trying to get over you himself.

It is much easier to leave something broken and move on then to try to put it back together and get hurt.

Sweet heart, move on.

CGM91 thanks! Very detail and truthful. Its nice to hear it from somebody with experience. And I hope the best for you.