Ihatethisstate
Oct 15, 2009, 06:56 PM
I moved to Texas for my husband, when our daughter was 10 months. He wanted to start this whole new life. So I gave up my life in the state where both him and I lived our whole lives to be with him. We have a two year old, we have only been married for 1 year and 1/2 and he turned into a different man. He basically started a life without me but with someone else when he got here. As I tried to work on our marriage, he was obvouisly working on other things. He now after almost two years of being here he has cheated,lied and saved his money while I continue to pay the bills.
Now that I have tried everything and he can not make it work, I want to go home! I am not from here, I do not like it here and I do not want to live here. I moved here for my husband who obvouisly is no the man I thought, and if we are not together I want to go home. Where I have support, of family and friends whether it be with the baby or mentally. I have no support system...
He said he will not let me leave the state with his child, he said if I go he will claim kid napping. How is that possible, with everything I have been through he should be grateful I still speak to him. Is this true will that be what happens, and if so we both know due to the amount of money I make to what he makes and all that I do that I will get custody. But what if I do not want to live here? Or even if I found a better job in California , I can not move to advance in my career? What do I do, I can not imagine being stuck here forever.
Now that I have tried everything and he can not make it work, I want to go home! I am not from here, I do not like it here and I do not want to live here. I moved here for my husband who obvouisly is no the man I thought, and if we are not together I want to go home. Where I have support, of family and friends whether it be with the baby or mentally. I have no support system...
He said he will not let me leave the state with his child, he said if I go he will claim kid napping. How is that possible, with everything I have been through he should be grateful I still speak to him. Is this true will that be what happens, and if so we both know due to the amount of money I make to what he makes and all that I do that I will get custody. But what if I do not want to live here? Or even if I found a better job in California , I can not move to advance in my career? What do I do, I can not imagine being stuck here forever.