crhammer
Oct 13, 2009, 09:34 AM
I met this girl back in feb and got her number but never called her. About a month later she picks me up in a club and we start dating. For the first couple of months we would see each other once or twice a week but by the end of may we were spending just about every night together. We got in a big fight in the beginning of sept. and did not speak for a week. We starting hanging out again and everything seemed fine.
Then she goes to this wedding without me as she was the bridesmaid and I didn't know anyone and I really did not want to go. So instead her friend who she says she thinks is gay goes as her date because he was invited as he is a friend of the bride. She shares a hotel room with him and he comes and spends the weekend at her house during which time she ignores my calls. At first she lies and said she was alone all weekend and tells me that he was there with her but nothing happened. I don't believe that as I have caught being dishonest before. We hung out a few times after that but something seems different. She seems distant and never has time for me. I know she is not hanging out with the other guy through the week at least because he lives and works 2 hours away. When I questioned her about her lack of wanting to see me she said she is just busy with work and hasent had the time... however she has always been busy and was always able to make the time to see me. Over the last week she won't call first but will generally respond to my texts and calls. I think she has feelings for this other guy but wants to keep me on the sidelines to see how it works out? As of yesterday I have stopped contacting her and have decided not to respond to her for a week or so if she contacts me. Does anyone have any thoughts or advice?
Then she goes to this wedding without me as she was the bridesmaid and I didn't know anyone and I really did not want to go. So instead her friend who she says she thinks is gay goes as her date because he was invited as he is a friend of the bride. She shares a hotel room with him and he comes and spends the weekend at her house during which time she ignores my calls. At first she lies and said she was alone all weekend and tells me that he was there with her but nothing happened. I don't believe that as I have caught being dishonest before. We hung out a few times after that but something seems different. She seems distant and never has time for me. I know she is not hanging out with the other guy through the week at least because he lives and works 2 hours away. When I questioned her about her lack of wanting to see me she said she is just busy with work and hasent had the time... however she has always been busy and was always able to make the time to see me. Over the last week she won't call first but will generally respond to my texts and calls. I think she has feelings for this other guy but wants to keep me on the sidelines to see how it works out? As of yesterday I have stopped contacting her and have decided not to respond to her for a week or so if she contacts me. Does anyone have any thoughts or advice?