I feel very much lonely and depressed.I have my wife and 18 years old son.Before my son use to love me very much ,but my wife is so jealous of this(sons loving attitude towards me) that she use different methods so that she can prove that I am a very selffish and bad husband & father.whereas I try constantly to adjust with my wife.please help

Hi, subhasis dutta!

What sort of conversations have you already had with your wife concerning this, please?

Thanks!

Is it your wife's son as well?

I feel as if you shouldn't blame yourself for your wife's additude, you should tell her that what she's doing is completely wrong. How is it fair to you that your being a good father where your son loves you unconditionally and that your wife is trying to tell you he doesn't love you. I think the problem is that your wife is feeling more lonely than she's letting on, because you and your son have such a good connection and bond maybe she feels threatened. Talk to her about what I said don't make it seem like your attacking her like that and don't try changing yourself for her to make it more convinent for her to walk over you my friend stand strong! I understand depression and solitude more than most, read up on my about me section and you'll understand why. I hope to hear from you soon my friend =] best of luck

Hopefully, subhasis dutta will return to this thread. But, after seven days of silence..

Thanks!