Want to know if I lost my virginity... had this time things was moving fast and we were kissing and touching etc we didn't plan on having sex... things got heated and well the tip of his penis went in and I stop it there... have I lost my virginity?

If his penis entered your vagina you are no longer a virgin...

I hope he had a condom on.

How old are you?

Am 22... yeah I know about once the penis enter the vagina that's lost of virginity... bout what if your hymen still there what that state?because after all it was the tip of the penis...

Your hymen was probably roken already. (Especially if the guy has used his fingers, or something inside you) You lost your virginity the minute his penis entered you. No matter how much it was inside you, it Was inside you.

Breaking of the hymen is not the issue , but the act itself is.

If the question was did he break you hymen, maybe not, but who is to say it is intact now.

He placed his penis in your vagina, you are no longer a virgin. Remember men at one time were all virgins until they place a penis in a vagina etc. Men do not have a hymen.

If you are 22, you know (or should!) proper English.

The word is "what", not "wat". "Just" has a t on the end of it.

DO NOT USE CHAT SPEAK!

If you had a penis, even a "little bit" into your vagina, then you are no longer a virgin. Sorry.

Hello alice:

I'm guessing that 777 means that you're religious person, and that having your virginity is important...

However, I think a bigger issue is whether you could be pregnant or not. Even though it was just the tip, if he popped his load into you, you could be knocked up.

excon

Yes I am religious I was waiting but he put it in and I don't blame him but myself... but thanks you guys answered what I already know... dont think am pregnant have not had weight gain or signs and I see my periods after, its about 4-5months since it happen and I saw my period every month...

I didn't notice you ever answering if he had a condom on. Have you been tested for std's yet?

He said he a virgin... no I had not had myself tested should I?

People lie. Who knows if he was or not. Go get yourself tested. Better safe than sorry

I will get myself tested thanks

He's no virign anymore!

Although virginity is always spoken about as the breaking of the hymen, virginity is actually much more to do with getting intimate with someone. It sounds like you were pretty intimate.The penis entering the vagina is a sure sign of intimacy and you have definitely lost your virginity. Although this has happened, intimacy is a continuum and losing your virginity is on that continuum. If you believe in saving yourself for marriage as much as possible, then realise that you have to understand intimacy. It is not about whether you have an intact hymen, but more about whether you have shared parts of your body with someone. Think carefully about what virginity and intimacy mean to you...

Just something to think about. If someone has had oral or anal sex are they still a virgin even if their hymen is intact? I would consider those to be pretty intimate acts and therefore I would not get hung up on the hymen thing. A person who has done those things has been intimate enough to warrant loss of virginity. If they are that intimate with someone then they may as well have vaginal sex too, because what exactly are they saving? VIRGINITY IS NOT ALWAYS SIMPLE OR BLACK AND WHITE CONCEPT.


I agree with all the sensible answers above. Get yourself tested, use a condom next time and don't believe a guy when he says he is not a virgin. Have some condoms in your room, when you go out on a date. It is much better to have them with you regardless of your intentions. Don't feel bad about this. Anyone can get carried away and not plan to have sex but it can happen and it is better if you are safe and in control (CONDOMS)

yes i am religious i was waiting but he put it in and i dont blame him but myself.........but thanks you guys answered what i already know..........dont think am pregnant have not had weight gain or signs and i see my periods after, its about 4-5months since it happen and i saw my period every month.....

You are not an adult .If you were you would know more than you know.
Saying you are 22 sounds false,in my opinion.I suspect you are 15.
Please get educated.
There is a world of information at your fingertips and YOU NEED to access it.
An unwanted pregnancy is something you never want to experience.

If his penis even began to enter your vagina... you are no longer a virgin. Plain and simple.