View Full Version : How do I tell him that he stinks?
HotPotato2009
Oct 9, 2009, 09:54 AM
Hello!
I'm a little embarrasses asking this question :o but here goes... What is the best way to tell a guy that their penis/balls stink and they need to take a shower without sounding mean??
Thanks!
nikosmom
Oct 9, 2009, 09:58 AM
If you are getting close enough to smell him, then you should also be at a point in the relationship to be open with your feelings. Perhaps don't go down there anymore and he'll get the hint.
HotPotato2009
Oct 9, 2009, 10:07 AM
Lol you are right. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. I just feel bad for telling him that. I have a soft heart
Cat1864
Oct 9, 2009, 10:18 AM
There is always making washing his genitalia part of the fun. If he wants to know why, you can be honest about the smell and that this seemed like a good way to take care of the problem while also getting some more play in.
HotPotato2009
Oct 9, 2009, 10:20 AM
I don't get what you mean Cat??
Cat1864
Oct 9, 2009, 10:28 AM
Get a bowl/container of warm (not too hot) water, soap washcloth and soft towel. Bathe his penis and testicles.
Wondergirl
Oct 9, 2009, 10:30 AM
Get a bowl/container of warm (not too hot) water, soap washcloth and soft towel. Bathe his penis and testicles.
Just take a soapy fun and teasing shower together beforehand.
HotPotato2009
Oct 9, 2009, 10:38 AM
Yea we've taken showers together before. But he doesn't like to take together a lot because for one our shower is way too small for 2 people.
adam_89
Oct 9, 2009, 10:54 AM
I don't think he would take it to heart. I have never been told this but if I was told so I would take much better care of them and wash them to avoid the situation again in the future. Especially if he is a guy who enjoys head.
HotPotato2009
Oct 9, 2009, 11:12 AM
Lol no he's not the type. He doesn't care much about getting head. But if I'm going to have sex with him I want his penis to be fresh. Ya know what I mean?
smoothy
Oct 9, 2009, 11:17 AM
Try this... "I ain't going near that thing until you take a shower....PEEEEEE EWWWWW"
HotPotato2009
Oct 9, 2009, 11:27 AM
LMAO.. thats a funny one! You guys are great!
shazamataz
Oct 9, 2009, 07:49 PM
Try this....."I ain't going near that thing until you take a shower....PEEEEEE EWWWWW"
Actually that's pretty much what I do with my partner...
I just outright tell him or make a joke out of it, he doesn't get offended if he knows washing it is going to get him head.
afaroo
Oct 9, 2009, 08:08 PM
How old are you?
John
LJDK
Oct 12, 2009, 05:08 AM
I have had this issue where we had a very long day, and night... neither of us showered. So I reckon I smelled bad, my girl just said "dude, that stinks... lets go jump in the shower"
I took no offense as we know each other well, and if you two know each other well... he won't get offended either.
smoothy
Oct 12, 2009, 05:46 AM
Actually that's pretty much what I do with my partner....
I just outright tell him or make a joke out of it, he doesn't get offended if he knows washing it is going to get him head.
Works even better if you can do it with a good Wanda Sykes immitation...
HotPotato2009
Oct 13, 2009, 12:14 PM
Thanks you guys for the advice. I feel better now lol