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1twiztidlette
Oct 9, 2009, 01:40 AM
OK I had my very 1st boyfriend when I was 8 years old,we were together for 3 years and when we roke up we lost contact for about 15 years but I always loved him and always thought about him and even tried to look him up on several occasions even while I wasmarried 2 another guy who was abusive and mean towards me. My husband left me for another woman and I lost everything,my home ,all my belongings,everything.After years apart I ended up getting reunited with my old boyfriend and found out he was in basically the same situation his girlfriend of 4 years had been caught in a motel with another guy and when he left the relationship he also lost evrything and had 2 move back in with his mom. We instantly hit it off we connected like we had nevr been apart. For the past 6 months he has called at least once every other week and said it wasn't going to work out then he calls me a few weeks later and apologizes, this last time was over another girl. He says he keeps doing this because he is scared of getting burnt again so every time he starts to get close 2 someone he freaks out and tries 2 run away.we have everything in common ,we like the same TV show,sports,music,movies evrything.he told me he has nothing in commomn with this other girl they don't like any of the same stuff but he like her 4 some reason. No matter how many times we have been separated me and him always seem 2 find our way back 2 each other it's like something draws us together. Do you think there is hope for us this time?

chaseroo
Aug 13, 2010, 01:32 PM
Listen, IF it does, you can keep the relationship alive, as a dude I can help you out

chaseroo
Aug 13, 2010, 01:33 PM
You just need to work as a team, do stuff he likes and vice versa, you will be closer and closer, but don't let it get into too much arguing because believe me it will turn out badly. Goodluck.