View Full Version : Confused and Wondering
IvetG
Oct 7, 2009, 07:38 PM
I need help understanding a experience that I just recently had. I have breast cancer and had a double mastectomy on October 1, 2209. The first night staying in the hospital I woke up to see some of my family members that have pasted away standing in the corner staring at me. In my mind I was thinking I am not dead or dying why are they here? I just stayed staring at them then I slowing dozed off feeling peace. What does this mean? Please help me understanding why they were there. Thank You
redhed35
Oct 8, 2009, 11:51 AM
Hello. Sometimes during a tramatic experience our mind protects us and may condure up images of comfort,there is also the school of thought that would put medication as the cause of your experience,I however believe if that's what you saw and their presents brought you comfort,then its true.
Sometimes we experience things that we cannot explain,that does not lesson the impact of the experience.
carly_may_13
Jan 19, 2010, 06:42 AM
A lot of women after getting mastectomies go through emotional distress, so your family just wanted to check and see if you were okay, and probably let you know that everything is going to be all right. I wouldn't be surprised if they came to you in your dreams as well.