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MzLove
Oct 6, 2009, 10:49 PM
Me&My Ex moved on about 10 years agao and every time we talk if its about the kids or him just calling to talk,he always throw my past up and this has been going on for a long time.Im just wandering why especially when we both moved on,if the kids start acting he says it's all my fault all the blame is on me and he only pays child support and that's all I have custody of my kids,Can you help me to understand Him:confused:

ChihuahuaMomma
Oct 7, 2009, 12:04 AM
Why do you need to? You're not together. Tell him to mind his own business. Your business is no longer any of his. His only concern regarding you should be about the care of his children.

jmjoseph
Oct 7, 2009, 01:13 AM
As long as he provides for your children, and doesn't say negative things about you when he's around them, why bother?

It's almost as if you've decided to sell a house that you didn't like, and are still wondering why it still needs constant repairs.

Don't waste your time, he's in the PAST, concentrate on your future.

Are these things that he says true? What, were you a little wild? Either way, he sounds childish. Tell him it bothers you, and forget it.

MzLove
Oct 7, 2009, 03:00 PM
Why do you need to? You're not together. Tell him to mind his own business. Your business is no longer any of his. His only concern regarding you should be about the care of his children.

Thank You So Much