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PurpLePassion
Oct 5, 2009, 07:23 PM
So I've noticed that when I'm beginning to "like" someone I begin to ignore them and I say dumb things!

What is this about?

I'm naturally very sarcastic... and when I catch myself crushing on someone I begin to be even more so.

I'm thinking it's because I use sarcasm as a way to convey how I really feel at times... because I can't say it with a straight face? [fear of what.. ]

It's becoming a problem for me. Guys end up thinking that I am TOTALLY NOT INTERESTED & I'm too proud to say that I am.


I need diff point of views.
What do you guys think it is?


Thank you!

troy70
Oct 5, 2009, 08:50 PM
Seems like maybe your afraid of rejection?

I know I use to act sarcastic and beat around the bush and pick on a girl when I liked her, till I realized I was totally missing out because I was afraid of rejection.

Just get more serious. If you like a guy, compliment him and be interested in his conversations! That's the best way I can tell a girl likes me... When she's into what I'm talking about and flirts by like sitting next to me or leaning on etc...

bswc
Oct 6, 2009, 03:31 AM
I tend to ignore girls that I like too, but I haven realise how I managed to get their attention. Maybe you can learn to express yourself more in a positive way, you can't be sarcastic all the time for good!

I wish
Oct 6, 2009, 05:52 AM
Swallow your pride and let the guy know that you are interested, straight up.

If you can do that, it means that you can change. Take the first-step first and then see how many other steps you can take.

PurpLePassion
Oct 8, 2009, 04:31 AM
Fear of rejection... haha yes I think this is it. I don't know why though? I mean 99% of the time I know they're into me too... I think there's something else going on


& I have difficulty expressing my feelings, period. Crying, showing sadness... I consider all of those signs of weakness so I rarellyyy display them. Which is bad because people think I'm heartless; whe nin reality imdying on the inside! Lol




And yes... I need to swallow my pride. Its so hard though!



Thanks guys! :)