Hi I'm a 16 year old boy and me and my girlfriend (also 16) have been going out for a month and a bit. We don't listen to the same music and were not into the same stuff but I'm learning and whenever were together we have fun. Today over breakfast she says she wants to break up and stay good friends. She said that she doesn't really know what she wants right now and thinks she jumped into the relationship too soon. She's more of a pessimitic girl and I'm more half glass full and I'm also an old romantic. She thinks that I should find someone that deserves me but I kept telling her I want to be with her. She kept saying that I would find someone. All in all the discussion went maturely but I don't want to give up I got her to agree to meet me after school to talk about it sort of a one last chance sort of thing. I need help I kind of know what I'm going to say but I just need a little help

Thank you in advance

At 16, this is what dating is all about, first in a month, you find out likes, dislikes and if you have enough in common. Remember you may be having a "good time" when together, but she may be wanting more or something different.

At 16, this is what dating is all about, first in a month, you find out likes, dislikes and if you have enough in common. remember you may be having a "good time" when together, but she may be wanting more or something different.


Wow thanks for that
People have been giving me advice all night but I never thought of it like that