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cowboysfan41
Sep 30, 2009, 07:01 PM
There's this girl named crystal ,and she's amazing I think I love her, I mean I have known her for about 3 years and I only started likeing her last year. We never talked much but last year she was in my class and we talked the hole time .when she talks to me she makes me laugh so mush I can't feel my face. She's so sweet ,and my hole body gets numb when I'm with her I have never felt like this about anyone before and I have been in a few long relationships .when I'm so upset and nobody can make me laugh all she has to say is one thing to chear me up. I hate that I can't stop thinking about her and I do try I though after a long time my feelings would stop but they have only got stronger . Now it's a yer later and I don't have her in any of my classes and I don't want to show her I'm despret by talking to her all the time.im not a good looking guy at all and she is beautiful that's why I thought I dident have a chance but back then I did feel like she liked me a little if she did at all.. but I think she just is worried about what here friends would say. I wish she could just get past my looks and be with me but I don't know I feel like I can't be with anyone els because I feel like I'm settling for someone els .when I just really what this girl she's everything to me

BlackVY
Sep 30, 2009, 07:26 PM
So ummm... what's the question here?

How to get this girl?

How to move on?

cowboysfan41
Sep 30, 2009, 07:43 PM
So ummm... whats the question here?

How to get this girl?

How to move on?

How do I get her??

BlackVY
Sep 30, 2009, 08:29 PM
Well you have to start talking to her I guess, be friends with her. You can drop little hints that you are interested in here and stuff like that.

Its always best to start as friends and build from there. So talking to her and hanging out with her as her friend is not going to show her you are desperate, it just shows you enjoy her company and like being with her, which is a good start

Riot
Oct 2, 2009, 01:35 AM
Right, so how does one drop hints?

BlackVY
Oct 5, 2009, 03:43 PM
Little hints like how you enjoy spending time with her, how she brightens up your day... nothing too intense, just simple and sweet...

If she does something to her hair, comment on it in a positive way, this shows her you are attentive..

If she is going through a hard time, tell her you are there for her, and be there for her, so she knows she can count on you...

If you keep showing her you are a great guy, that's good, she might start considering how you'd make a good boyfriend... then show her you are interested, slightly... don't propose to her or anything, just tell her little things like "If you were my girl..." or "If we were dating..."

It might work, I mean everyone is different, but just give it a go, and be yourself.