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billyboy1995
Sep 29, 2009, 09:54 PM
Hi. I have a really good friend but she thinks I am gay or a bi. No matter how many times I tell her I am not she still thinks I am only because I am a joker and I "flirt" with guys to scare them. She knows I have only dated girls but still insistes that I am gay.

Clough
Sep 29, 2009, 10:05 PM
Hi, billyboy1995!

What grade(s) are you and she in, please?

Thanks!

billyboy1995
Sep 30, 2009, 05:50 PM
We are both in gr9.

Clough
Oct 1, 2009, 02:24 PM
Hi again, billyboy1995!

How about just ignoring her when she starts in again with saying that you're gay or bi?

What do you think that she would do if you did that?

Thanks!

lilangel16
Oct 3, 2009, 11:02 AM
Hello I think that you should stop doing what you are doing with guys if you kept doing that she will keep thinking that you are gay or bi and try 2 spend more time with her than spending your time with guys

Tinkerbell2004
Oct 3, 2009, 12:25 PM
There will always be people that think things about you that aren't true, the only way to deal with it is to ignore it && not let it bother you. The only thing that really matters is that you know you aren't gay or bi.

I have a very flirty happy personality && I am extremely close with my best friend. She && I will joke around all the time, && on many occasions I have had people ask me if I was gay or bi, but I just say no, && move on with my life. No reason sweating the small stuff, you're still young, just live your life && have fun.

Good luck!