Producer
Sep 26, 2009, 10:47 AM
How about this situation..
You go out with a guy on and off for two years, and all along you have two friends
Who know the guy and friends of him as well and you go out with them in a foursome every now and then.
You notice a special connection between the woman of the other couple and your guy, but you stay cool.
The guy in question has just previously broken up with his partner like me with mine,our respective partners live in the same area so we keep our relationship quiet.
But things are OK you are in each others company and that all that matters.
Then he doesn't want to go any furthur sexually wise, fair enough, and I didn't want him coming around that often due I have two kids
So, we just enjoy each others company.
I didn't mention that I didn't tell the other couple, that myself and my guy where having an affair (It really felt like that). Then one day it slipped out and from then on was horrible.
After a while I started finding out that every thing I had shared with my guy either it be what you get up to sexually wise even though its not intercourse, and everything that you shared with him e.g. ing about some-one (we are allowed to be in a bad mood sometimes about some-one) well he has gone and repeated everything until the very last drop of privacy you thought you had wit him to the wife of the common friends you thought you had. So u go crazy and send him a bunch of texts and he even repeats that to these people, who in turn on me like I had done something to them? (The wife who was meant to be a so called friend, but I did feel all along that there was something wrong about her.. ) In the first place it was none of their business what was happening between my guy and me and in the second place why did they make it their business? I am really lost I am sure there is something that they have forgotton to tell me and really don't understand what happened, really confused and hurt, so have cut all contact with all three of them and feel a whole lot better! But am really angry that they made a fool of me like this. I feel like the wife had a crush on my guy, but she screamed into my face (Great eh?) that she didn't. I was told that my guy was an imature sod by many a soul around here. OK but I really thought we had this really special friendship he wasn't perfect I admit, but really for me he was great and that controlling has gone and destroyed everything.
After been invited to a party, in front of a lot of people the woman of the other couple who was very drunk screamed at me saying I was crazy to have sent all those texts to my boyfriend and that he was terrified of me, I had stopped her in her tracks and asked her why she was making this her business? And left. The following day I went to see her and told her that I didn't want to see the boyfriend anymore. She must have told him, because I haven't seen him since?
What a carry on? Why didn't he come to see me and talk to me instead of going behind my back like this?
What do you think?
You go out with a guy on and off for two years, and all along you have two friends
Who know the guy and friends of him as well and you go out with them in a foursome every now and then.
You notice a special connection between the woman of the other couple and your guy, but you stay cool.
The guy in question has just previously broken up with his partner like me with mine,our respective partners live in the same area so we keep our relationship quiet.
But things are OK you are in each others company and that all that matters.
Then he doesn't want to go any furthur sexually wise, fair enough, and I didn't want him coming around that often due I have two kids
So, we just enjoy each others company.
I didn't mention that I didn't tell the other couple, that myself and my guy where having an affair (It really felt like that). Then one day it slipped out and from then on was horrible.
After a while I started finding out that every thing I had shared with my guy either it be what you get up to sexually wise even though its not intercourse, and everything that you shared with him e.g. ing about some-one (we are allowed to be in a bad mood sometimes about some-one) well he has gone and repeated everything until the very last drop of privacy you thought you had wit him to the wife of the common friends you thought you had. So u go crazy and send him a bunch of texts and he even repeats that to these people, who in turn on me like I had done something to them? (The wife who was meant to be a so called friend, but I did feel all along that there was something wrong about her.. ) In the first place it was none of their business what was happening between my guy and me and in the second place why did they make it their business? I am really lost I am sure there is something that they have forgotton to tell me and really don't understand what happened, really confused and hurt, so have cut all contact with all three of them and feel a whole lot better! But am really angry that they made a fool of me like this. I feel like the wife had a crush on my guy, but she screamed into my face (Great eh?) that she didn't. I was told that my guy was an imature sod by many a soul around here. OK but I really thought we had this really special friendship he wasn't perfect I admit, but really for me he was great and that controlling has gone and destroyed everything.
After been invited to a party, in front of a lot of people the woman of the other couple who was very drunk screamed at me saying I was crazy to have sent all those texts to my boyfriend and that he was terrified of me, I had stopped her in her tracks and asked her why she was making this her business? And left. The following day I went to see her and told her that I didn't want to see the boyfriend anymore. She must have told him, because I haven't seen him since?
What a carry on? Why didn't he come to see me and talk to me instead of going behind my back like this?
What do you think?