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terrorshow
Sep 26, 2009, 07:26 AM
Usually I wouldn't post a 'does he like me' kind of thread as I just think whatever happens happens but I'm really confused about this one.

A couple of weeks ago I met this guy as he always comes in to the bar I work at, turns out we had a mutual friend so she introduced us.

Ever since then he's been texting me constantly, always comes into the bar when I'm working and buys me drinks, he even asked if I had a boyfriend but he said his reason for asking was that recently every time he's spoke to a girl she's had a boyfriend and he didn't want to get in trouble if I had one.

That's the good bit, the catch is sometimes I'm not sure if he's interested at all. I'm pretty sure I've seen him chatting up a couple of other girls briefly, sometimes he's touchy-feely but other times not at all and before I went home last night he jokingly said "text me tomorrow or you're not a good friend!"

What do you think? I like him but I don't want to get my hopes up if he is just being friendly.

redhed35
Sep 26, 2009, 07:33 AM
He sounds flirty and friendly...

Id be confused too!

However there is one sure fire way of knowing that a man likes you...

He asks you out!

Until he does that,its much of a muchness what or who he does...

He may be keeping his option open,see how she takes it,kind of thing.

Don't text him,cool off a little,let him chase...

jmjoseph
Sep 26, 2009, 08:42 AM
Can I be honest? Yes, he likes you. I think he's smitten actually. I think somehow he is trying to stand off, be unlike all the other guys who I am sure are hitting on you at your job, the bar.

I have yet to see a female bartender standing by herself for a long period. Guys like the pretty girl who's plying him with his favorite beverage. Plus, most guys have a buzz. And you know us and liquor...

If this guy is texting you, hanging around a lot, buying you drinks and you work at the bar, asking the boyfriend question, he likes you.

Now what are you going to do?

Influence
Sep 27, 2009, 05:13 AM
Don't blame you for being confused basically I think he is one of those type of guys that talks to everyone the same just the way he talks to people some think its flirting others don't. I really do think he is just trying to be a friend to you nothing more.

But Im quite happy to be proven wrong if the above user is correct