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fading1221
Sep 25, 2009, 12:12 PM
Me and my boyfriend got a little heated yesterday and things went past what we planned. He lost his virginity. It was real quick.. kind of an in out deal.. he was about to bust and realized no condom so he pulled out real quick and put on a condom. I know he didn't burst but I've heard the pull out method is not very good.. and I guess that's what we did. Like I said it was real quick and in out kind of thing.. anywayz my question is what are my chances of being pregnant.. should I stress? And when is too early to test.. my last period was September 6-13 and its hard to predict them here lately.. we did this on September 24!? Please help me? When can I test or should I stress

Justwantfair
Sep 25, 2009, 12:18 PM
You can test as soon as you miss a period, but yes, it's too early to test right now.

There are also morning after pills available if you talk to your parents there still maybe time. Since you already need to have this conversation with them.

Don't wait for a condom, you have to protect yourself also. If you think you are mature enough for sex, then be mature enough to talk to your parents and protect your own body.

100% guaranteed safe sex method = abstinence.

adam_89
Sep 25, 2009, 12:19 PM
Anytime you have unprotected sex you have the chance getting pregnant. Come next month around the time of your period if it hasn't came or by the end of next month maybe you should start testing. I wish you the best luck.

Also, how old are you 2?

fading1221
Sep 25, 2009, 01:15 PM
18

Justwantfair
Sep 25, 2009, 01:19 PM
he lost his virginity. it was real quick.. kind of an in out deal.. he was about to bust and realized no condom so he pulled out real quick and put on a condom. i know he didnt burst

This is not the conversation of an 18 year old.
If you don't understand intercourse, you are too young to be participating.

jmjoseph
Sep 25, 2009, 01:19 PM
You said "he lost his virginity", does that mean that you had already? Either way, you should ALWAYS practice safe sex. Unless you want a baby. And at your age, wouldn't recommend it.

Be careful next time, and from now on.

cmg_94
Oct 3, 2009, 03:35 PM
I don't really know what to say to that because you seem way too young to be having sex. I have a similar problem except my boyfriend wants a baby and I'm young. Too young to be stuck with a child. If you end up pregnant, just hope that your partner is responsible. And pray for the best...

Fr_Chuck
Oct 3, 2009, 06:24 PM
There is lots of sperm in the early fluid, so there is no real pull out method, it only reduces the amount of sperm, not stops it.

So yes you could easily be pregnant

jrsg
Oct 4, 2009, 10:33 AM
Fr_Chuck is right, you could easily be pregnant.

sex = pregnant.

Should you stress? YES. Stress yourself enough to make sure it doesn't happen again. Next time you're going to have sex, use a condom. If you don't have a condom, don't have sex. It's that easy.

The_Tiny_Texan
Oct 4, 2009, 04:39 PM
If 100 girls had unprotected sex, 85 of them would get pregnant.
You have a pretty good chance.