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this-love
Sep 22, 2009, 09:29 AM
There is this guy that I used to like and then we met while he was out with his friends and I was with my friends. He started to talk to me and from then he added me on my Yahoo. We spent three weeks talking and met 2/3 times in a group. Then we stopped talking a bit but then he saw me by coincidence and told me that he thought I didn't want to talk to him anymore. I told him that I tought the same about him and after we left each other he came to look for me where I was and stuff like that =). From there we began to talk again...
The thing is I really want to go out with this boy but he never asked me to and I don't know if he wants.
How should I find out? [I'm 15 bdw]
HellHound82
Sep 22, 2009, 03:14 PM
Ask him
this-love
Sep 22, 2009, 03:48 PM
I am afraid I may end our friendship =/
HellHound82
Sep 22, 2009, 07:49 PM
It won't, I have been in your position before, yes she said no, but we still remained friends
bleed2loveme
Sep 23, 2009, 05:12 AM
Its not as hard as it sounds, trust me..
I asked my ex out, we worked together, one day after work I just went up to him, and asked him if he wanted to go out sometime. He said yes and we were together for 6 years, it was nerve wracking, but, as the saying goes, you don't ask, you don't get..
Good luck..
carlee611
Sep 23, 2009, 05:15 AM
if you don't ask you'll never no what the answer would be?
what have you got to loose? I don't think your going to fall out over this.. tell him how you feel and you never o he may feel the same =]
dorky
Sep 23, 2009, 06:47 AM
I think you should just try and ask him, even though that is kind of scary! Good luck
this-love
Sep 23, 2009, 07:46 AM
Yes that's what I'm thinking of (asking him out). But I want to make it look like an innocent invitation like that it was a long time since I last saw him but I don't know how I should say it exactly so he would understand that I'm asking for a date.
HellHound82
Sep 23, 2009, 08:46 AM
Lots of new movies comeing out... maybe invite him to one