Moved to its own thread ,and edited for spelling, and grammar.

I just found out my husband has been chatting with another women for over 6 months, we have been married for 4 years we have to children together, he blames me being pregnant, and to preoccupied with the children for our falling out. I love him to death but I will leave him even though he says its been over for 3 months now. I contacted the other women, and she says there has never been anything more then phone calls, and chatting, which is enough for me. He told her he loves her, you can't just love someone like that, and say its over. I keep wondering could I have changed this from ever happening? I'm so lost, and confused. I want to leave him, but we have children together, and have been together for 7 years.

I think you take the time, and get your emotions under control, before you make an impulsive life changing decision.

Make him sleep on the couch until you calm down, and can talk reasonably, and rationally. No way do I condone his actions, but clearly something is wrong. You have to talk about it to know if there is something you can do about this situation together.