Im just wondering, because I love it, my boyfriend who I smusli loves it and its done often, perhaps too often. When does it become "haram"?

As long as you are both enjoying each other and it is not clouding your judgment to which it could be called Khamr, nor does it interfere with other obligations, I personally think it is a good thing to be so passionate with each other.

Your boyfriend? And you are muslima? You know that is haram, why not wait until marriage?

Im actually not muslim. Im christian. He perpetuated the interest though. He seems to think there's nothing wrong as long as we don't on days he is fasting or during ramadan. And honestly... I don't think he could have waited until marriage... =)

I see. Well, there's nothing wrong with waiting if you like as it is never too late. Well, it would be considered as haraam. And for married couples it is considered
Halaal and allowed only after the fasting hours between Maghrib and Faijr.