View Full Version : Is there a high possibility of a 1st timer [ in sex ] to get pregnant?
BruceWayne
Sep 15, 2009, 10:37 AM
I got a girlfriend and we had sex.
And I don't know if I cummed on her vagina.
I wasn't sure if it went inside.
And we didn't use any protection like condom.
Is there a high possibility that she'll get pregnant?
rizzoeddie
Sep 15, 2009, 11:42 AM
Well, anyone can become pregnant, even if it is your first time. But there is not an extremely high chance, or an extremely low chance, but just a chance she could be pregnant.
You will just need to wait it out, and try and to take a test whenever the opportunity veils itself. Usually, take the test around the time she would get her period, if she misses by a couple days or so.
Hope this helps, good luck!
justcurious55
Sep 15, 2009, 11:43 AM
it doesn't matter if it was if it was either of your guys's first or hundredth time having sex. Sex=possible pregnancy. Unprotected sex=higher chance of possible pregnancy. Not to mention an increased chance of stds. So, now you guys get to play the waiting game and cross your fingers that her period comes when it's supposed to. She needs to get herself on birth control. And, YOU NEED TO WEAR A CONDOM EVERY TIME YOU HAVE SEX until you are ready emotionally and financially for a child. Even when birth control is used correctly and consistently, there's no guarantee that it will be 100% effective, there will always be some chance of pregnancy.
Justwantfair
Sep 15, 2009, 12:00 PM
I got pregnant my first time. It can happen and does.
You need to abstane from sex, or protect yourself and your partner if you are not ready for a child.
XavierB
Sep 15, 2009, 12:05 PM
If you were inside when you came, then there's a chance she could be pregnant. Like the others have said, you just have to wait now and see if you can get a pregnancy test done. Next time you have sex, you HAVE to wear a condom. There are diseases like AIDS that even virgins can have. You have to protect yourself from more than just pregnancy, your life is important.
Silverfoxkit
Sep 15, 2009, 12:35 PM
I'm not going to do any more preaching about protection because by now with all of the other good posts you've hopefully gotten the point by now.
After puerberty a woman can get pregnant any time she has sex, 1st time, 100th time, or even when she is on her period. When you choose to have sex its almost like playing russian roulette with conception. There is a 25% chance of getting pregnant every time, so about 75% to 85% of women who have unprotected sex will get pregnant within one year.
When you have sex, even if you withdraw, semen is still released during the process and it can live in the body for app. 4 to 5 days. The egg can survive 24 to 48 hours after being released so if she ovulates even the day after the act was done you can still get a baby out of the deal.
ohsohappy
Sep 15, 2009, 12:38 PM
There's always a chance that a woman could get pregnant when she has sex, even if she is protected. Unless of course she is post menopausal or has had a histerectamy (if that's how you spell it) Anyway, YES, there is always a possibility, unless she is one of the exceptions (there are more than just those 2 by the way).
Fr_Chuck
Sep 15, 2009, 01:00 PM
Yes, there is a chance, was the girl on any form of other birth control, did she get the "morning after pill"
1.it sounds like you are way to young to have sex since
a. you don't even know if you were "in" her
b. not sure if you were if you ejactulated
Sounds like you need a real sex ed lesson
BruceWayne
Sep 15, 2009, 01:04 PM
Ahm.thnks.
But..
What are some commen symptons that she is pregnant?
justcurious55
Sep 15, 2009, 01:08 PM
You can't go off symptoms. Pregnancy symptoms can too easily be confused with pms. If I started believing every time I started eating a little more than usual and being a little more tired and going to the bathroom more often that I was pregnant I think I'd be in a constant state of panic. What she should is wait until her expected period. Don't panic if it doesn't come on the exact day. But if 2 or 3 days, maybe even a few more after it's expected, it's not there, she should take a pregnancy test. If it's negative, and still no period within the next week or so, she should re-test because she may have been pregnant and it may have just been too early to tell with the first test.
Justwantfair
Sep 15, 2009, 01:15 PM
What are some commen symptons that she is pregnant?
A positive pregnancy test.
There are morning after pills that can be taken up to five days following sexual intercourse, with the effectiveness dropping with each passing 24 hours.
If this happened very recently, you both may still have options to prevent pregnancy, but it will require talking to your parents. Which is a better conversation then, 'Mom, Dad, I think we are having a baby!'
simoneaugie
Sep 15, 2009, 01:20 PM
Use your computer. Google pregnancy symptoms. Also look up female reproductive anatomy and female orgasm. The more you know, the easier life is.
BruceWayne
Sep 15, 2009, 01:21 PM
I'm so nervous.
I don't know what to do.
What if she's pregnant.
And how will I know if she's pregnant.
What can I do right now.
Just wait?
Or what?
Justwantfair
Sep 15, 2009, 01:32 PM
just wait?
BINGO
It will be a long month for you, hopefully all the waiting will give you sometime to learn something from this experience.
ohsohappy
Sep 15, 2009, 02:46 PM
I'm so nervous.
I don't know what to do.
What if she's pregnant.
and how will I know if she's pregnant.
What can I do right now.
just wait?
or what?
If you're not ready to assume the responsibility of a parent, you should not be having sex. At the very least be protected. You are not making wise decisions, and it could screw up your entire future if you don't think before you act.
J_9
Sep 15, 2009, 04:14 PM
I'm so nervous.
I don't know what to do.
What if she's pregnant.
And how will I know if she's pregnant.
What can I do right now.
Just wait?
Or what?
Sorry Batman... you are playing the waiting game now. You will know she is pregnant when she misses her period and the pregnancy test comes up positive.
Altenweg agrees: Batman. OMG! Water came out of my nose!
Glad it was just water!!
BruceWayne
Sep 17, 2009, 03:07 AM
What if she had her menstruation a week before we had sex.
Does it make any difference?
Does it make the possibility higher or lower?
J_9
Sep 17, 2009, 04:45 AM
It makes the possibility higher.
BruceWayne
Sep 17, 2009, 09:57 AM
Aw.
Which means if we had sex before her menstruation.
It makes the possibility lower?
Justwantfair
Sep 17, 2009, 12:15 PM
It's possible anytime of the month, even while she is menstrating.