ohsohappy
Sep 15, 2009, 12:36 AM
Jeez. It was almost 2 years aho I broke up with the boyfriend I had at the time (I've been dating a different guy since then) Actually, HE broke up with ME. The funny thing is, is that we tried to be friends for a little while but it didn't work out because we fought all of the time. Mostly it was because I had moved on before he did (we only dated about 4 months) So he did everything he could to make me feel like a disgusting person and tell me that I"m filthy and all this other stupid bull crap because I had started to date someone else about 3 weeks after he and I broke up.
So natrually, I decided not to contact him anymore, and I told him that I no longer wanted his "friendship" or anything else that he had to offer. He listened for a few months, and then he would text me again. I ignored it, and then the next day he would send me multiple messages telling me "how much I mean to him, and I'm the last girl he ever cried because of, and he burned himself intentionally and considered suicide because I had told him to leave me alone"
He did this a few times every couple of hours for like 2 days, until I called and yelled at him and told him to go "F Himslef and that I didn't give an S what he thought or how he felt" Then he'd ignore me for a few months and repeat.
I was very clear to him several times as to the reason I didn't want any contact him. I had tried multiple different times and ways to block his number, but because of my plan, I was unable to. It was getting to the point where my Current boyfriend wanted to beat the crap out of him. (Obviously I wouldn't allow it) So the other day, the last time he had texted me I texted him back and said "Look, I don't know how I can make this any clearer to you than I already have, we are not friends and we never will be. I do not want you in my life. I don't get what's sohard to comprehend about that, really. Leave me alone" He proceeded to tell me how it was "such a huge expense for him to give me up" (whatever the hell that means) So I finally said "I am changing my number, today, I Never want to hear from you again." Then he proceeded to tell me how Immature I was, and pathetic because I couldn't grow up and have a conversation with him (another reason why he was an A-hole and I decided not to talk to him)
Well anyway, my question is this; Why didn't he just leave me alone, when I had made it perfectly clear that I wanted nothing to do with him? Here's the kicker, He has a girlfriend he's been dating for I suppose about a year now almost. Weird huh?
So natrually, I decided not to contact him anymore, and I told him that I no longer wanted his "friendship" or anything else that he had to offer. He listened for a few months, and then he would text me again. I ignored it, and then the next day he would send me multiple messages telling me "how much I mean to him, and I'm the last girl he ever cried because of, and he burned himself intentionally and considered suicide because I had told him to leave me alone"
He did this a few times every couple of hours for like 2 days, until I called and yelled at him and told him to go "F Himslef and that I didn't give an S what he thought or how he felt" Then he'd ignore me for a few months and repeat.
I was very clear to him several times as to the reason I didn't want any contact him. I had tried multiple different times and ways to block his number, but because of my plan, I was unable to. It was getting to the point where my Current boyfriend wanted to beat the crap out of him. (Obviously I wouldn't allow it) So the other day, the last time he had texted me I texted him back and said "Look, I don't know how I can make this any clearer to you than I already have, we are not friends and we never will be. I do not want you in my life. I don't get what's sohard to comprehend about that, really. Leave me alone" He proceeded to tell me how it was "such a huge expense for him to give me up" (whatever the hell that means) So I finally said "I am changing my number, today, I Never want to hear from you again." Then he proceeded to tell me how Immature I was, and pathetic because I couldn't grow up and have a conversation with him (another reason why he was an A-hole and I decided not to talk to him)
Well anyway, my question is this; Why didn't he just leave me alone, when I had made it perfectly clear that I wanted nothing to do with him? Here's the kicker, He has a girlfriend he's been dating for I suppose about a year now almost. Weird huh?