Going to keep this short. I've been talking to this girl for about two weeks now. We met at a party, hit it off and exchanged numbers and have been on a couple dates. Anyway, we both agree that we should take it slow and hold off on being official and just get to know each other better. For the last few days she is constantly calling or texting me and we have had some great conversations. The last couple days though she seems to have become distant and quiet. She quit texting me minus just responding back with 1 word answers.

Now the thing is I really like this girl and don't want to mess things up. Should I just back off and give her space or should I try to see what's wrong?

I think she's playing hard to get? If she really likes you then she'll start responding more? It's hard to tell, because sometimes girls assume the guys have to do the pursuing. If I feel like a guy is constantly calling me then I feel like I have too much control and get bored. If the guy backs off but occasionally calls or texts me I start worrying. With the minor chance that some kind of terrible accident happened, you could ask her if anything is wrong. If she says nothing or has the same pattern, then back off.

My first guess would be its just not working for her and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Maybe backing off she is hoping you will "take the hint" Just try asking her instead of making it a guessing game.

You have a couple of options here.

1) Back off, give her space and let her contact you

2) Call her, not text, but call and see what's up. Ask her out on another date or tell her to call you if she wants to go out again... etc.

I go with option 2. It is usually better to at least leave the ball in her court.

Kc listed your two possible choices.

If you go with number 1) by backing off and waiting for her to contact you, you would probably be blaming yourself for not doing something. Furthermore, the suspense would probably drive you crazy.

Therefore, by defaut, number 2) would be the idea choice. Try to set up another date with her. If she doesn't want to hang out and doesn't try to re-schedule, then chances are she's no longer interested in you.

I know that things were going well at first, but eventually she's going to decide how she feels about you. If she's not interested, she's not going to tell you directly. She's going to ignore you, so that she can let you down easy.

Well... sometimes girls (and boys) are incomprehensible. She may not be interested in you anymore, or she may be just testing you. Either way, back off and let a couple of days pass by and call her then. You should not stalk her, let her be for 5-6 days and then call. She will be able that you call and may show a bit more interest.

Dude she's playing hard to get don't ask her if anyhtings wrong she'll think your needy. I know it sounds crazy but sort of ignore her for a little and see how she reacts.. If she texts or approaches you you'll know she wants it. And you got to text her up that's the time where you spit your game connect and actually get her to like you. Once you get into a relationship with her then tea you can call her at the end of the day and share what you did. Don't over pursue and don't ever give her more control then you have you want it to be equal. Good luck