someone27
Sep 14, 2009, 12:35 PM
So... my boyfriend and I have been together for mere months... he's 28, I'm 27. He's white, I'm black. Not that it matters but I thought a little bit of background info would help.
I perform oral sex, willingly and often. I like it because of how it makes my partner feel, want to make sure he's satisfied. I see oral sex as a "do unto others" situation. If I give then I should receive right?
My boyfriend says it turns him off and it disgusts him to perform oral sex. Now, even though he's said this, he has done it once or twice. It only lasted a few seconds to 1 minute but quite worth it. ;)
My question is: how can I make him feel more comfortable about giving me oral sex without using a scare tactic? Meaning, denying him oral sex or sex period until he breaks down and does as I ask? I have tried different perfume sprays, edible oils, and such but I end up using it on him instead!
I don't want this to become a 'real problem' for us, every other aspect of our relationship is great. Sex is the best I've ever had so... no sense in creating a problem out of nothing. If you can offer up some advice in the enticing department, I'd appreciate it... thx
I perform oral sex, willingly and often. I like it because of how it makes my partner feel, want to make sure he's satisfied. I see oral sex as a "do unto others" situation. If I give then I should receive right?
My boyfriend says it turns him off and it disgusts him to perform oral sex. Now, even though he's said this, he has done it once or twice. It only lasted a few seconds to 1 minute but quite worth it. ;)
My question is: how can I make him feel more comfortable about giving me oral sex without using a scare tactic? Meaning, denying him oral sex or sex period until he breaks down and does as I ask? I have tried different perfume sprays, edible oils, and such but I end up using it on him instead!
I don't want this to become a 'real problem' for us, every other aspect of our relationship is great. Sex is the best I've ever had so... no sense in creating a problem out of nothing. If you can offer up some advice in the enticing department, I'd appreciate it... thx