I'm not to good at putting my thoughts together but I'll try. So there is this girl that I have a lot of feelings for and I have never liked any girl this much before and its driving me crazy. I am 20 and she is 21 and has a child that I get along with very well. She lives with my brother, my brothers girlfriend who is also her best friend, and I. My mom moved out about two months ago so she could move in because she had no where to live. It is a temporary thing to help her save up money. Me and her seem to get along really well, she asks me to watch movies with her a lot but only in the living room though, and we laugh all the time. She tells me about her past relationships and just all the hard times she has had in her life so it makes me feel special that she trusts me, but I feel like she might do that with a lot of people so I'm not sure. I also tell her about the problems in my life that I have never told anyone else and she knows this. We have trust for each other it seems like and she hides my money in her room because my brother likes to steal from me. She has told me that she does not want a boyfriend, not because I asked just to say it and she always says that she is not down to mess around with any guys because she is afraid of disease. She doesn't have to worry about disease with me because I am a virgin by choice and she knows that. I really have grown to like her and I think about her all the time when she is not home. But recently a few days ago while I was getting ready to go hang out with her and her best friend, she was holding my brothers baby and talking to me and the baby pulled down her shirt a little and I seen a hickey on her right breast. It happened real quick but I am positive it was a hickey. So once I seen that I just got really mad and told them I didn't want to go and I should do my homework but they could tell that I was mad. I know she got it the day before because she was gone that whole day until midnight. When they left I took my money from her room because I felt like she is just a liar telling me all the time how she is not down and what not. But I still like her and the past couple of days I haven't talked to her a lot like I usually do, and she took that as me being mean. I didn't talk to her because I didn't want to make things weird because that would be weird if I told her I seen the hickey then what would she do or say and I was pretty mad. I just wanted to forget about it. So yesterday 3 days after the incident I ask my brother if he had a pencil sharpener while she was around and my brother said I bet she has one. She said she did and I could only use it if I said I was sorry and I refused so we laughed at me trying to color my homework with dule pencils. It broke the tension between us and she stole 15 dollars from my hand and had me chasing her around the house for it and still trying to get me to say sorry for being mean and I still refused but I seemed like we were both having fun. She ended up throwing the money on the floor while I was watching a movie and ran away when I tried to talk to her. I got up 5 mintues later to go talk to her and she was in her room with the door close. I left her alone... So today when she came home from work, I showed her a movie that my mom bought us that she has been really wanting to see and she says to me " I'll watch it when I get home.... Actually I don't know if Im coming home." I think she knows I like her and she said that to get me mad and she probably won't come home to get me mader. I didn't say anything to her after that I just let her get ready and leave then I texted her a few hours later and said " Im sorry that you feel that I have been mean towards you but I havent. I have just been upset about something and haven't been talking to anyone." She never said anything back so here I am 5 hours later and its almost midnight and she is still not back. I just want to ask her out but it would be really weird if she said no because we are living in the same house and I just don't know what to do. I was thinking that when she moves out she will relieze how much she misses me and maybe then I could ask her out. So I need advice on how to ask her out?

Man you got to take it easy!
Don't go jumping to conclusions...
She seems like a nice girl and doenst mean to harm you, I don't think.

One of the others who know what they are talking about should be able to help

Where to start!

This girl is living in the house trying to save money to get her own place,and you feel that because she talks to you (you share the same house)and you get along well that you have dibs on her...

What she does in her private time has nothing to do with you,you are not her keeper and she does not have to answer to you..

I would think you have made yourself clear that you like her,and now she probably feels uncomfortable around you,your going to force her hand where she either moves out or she tells you to back off.

You are a house mate---thats all.. a jealous house mate with romantic notions of a girl who you really have nothing to do with..

If you were living apart I would advice you to leave her alone.

Wow, this is tough. You know, you are a virgin and have not had much experience with women. She seems quite experienced and also has this child. Of course you like this child and get along with it but she has some problems to deal with here.

Wouldn't you like to be involved with someone who perhaps doesn't have these complications? It would be nice if you focused on a girl who would be able to focus her time and love on you and not her child first.

I think you have such crazy feelings for her due to raging hormones and heck, she's living in the house. To answer your question though, get to know her. If you keep spotting these hickies on her, you might decide on your own that she is not for you... you deserve better!