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Yana13
Sep 8, 2009, 07:28 PM
My husband is having a baby with a other women , Im all ready OK with it... I wanted to now well we my husband and I would like to now if the baby mother does not want the baby could my husband just keep it if he is on the birth cirtificate of course with the mother permision. She has told us that she could not handle a other child she has 3 more and she is willing to give all rights to my husband does he need legall documents or with her giving all rights away is OK

N0help4u
Sep 8, 2009, 08:42 PM
He can go to court and file for full/sole custody.

ohsohappy
Sep 8, 2009, 08:47 PM
I don't mean to pry, but did he cheat, or something? Why is this okay?

Yana13
Sep 8, 2009, 11:00 PM
I don't mean to pry, but did he cheat, or something? Why is this okay?

We were separated for 6 months so we both saw different people. And in the end a baby I think does not have any fault in anything right

Yana13
Sep 8, 2009, 11:02 PM
He can go to court and file for full/sole custody.

Ok thank you very much

ohsohappy
Sep 8, 2009, 11:29 PM
we were separated for 6 months so we both saw diffrent people. and in the end a baby I think does not have any fault in anything right

Oh of course it's not the baby's fault. I was just curious as to the circumstances. As long as you and he worked things out, then that's what's most important, besides the child.
Just be sure you're willing to accept that child as 100% yours if he gains full custody. Which I'm sure you will. It's not any different from adopting.

ScottGem
Sep 9, 2009, 12:01 AM
First, please pay more attention to the posting guidelines here. At the top of the Children forum (where this was moved from) is a Read First sticky that directs legal questions to this forum.

Once the baby is born, he will need to go to the local Family Court and apply for full custody. If the mother does not object, then it should be a slam dunk.

The mother will not, however, be able to sign over her rights unless you also apply to adopt the child. So I would strongly advise consulting an attorney to prepare the application for custody and adoption.