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Manimal
Sep 6, 2009, 01:14 PM
I kind of got rushed into this relationship last week. We kind of like each other and we hooked up and she took it as we were dating so I went with it. I'm already losing interest. Met one her friends at a party and we got to talking. I like this girl and would like to get to know her better but how can I do that without hurting the girl that I am currently dating and without creating drama??

redhed35
Sep 6, 2009, 01:19 PM
DATING.

Getting to know someone before you decide you want a relationship...

Depending on what age group you are it might be easy to get out of this.

Be nice.. if your in your early teens,these 'relationship breakups' can cause a lot of hurt,even though its only been two weeks.

Talk to the girl,tell her your sorry but things are not working out.

Don't end up in the same situation again!

Don't play with peoples hearts,and be careful with your own.

hheath541
Sep 6, 2009, 01:28 PM
No matter how you break up with her, dating her friend WILL hurt her. If they really are friends, then the second girl probably won't even date you. Girls tend to live by the rule not to date friends' ex's more than guys do.

britEl
Sep 6, 2009, 02:46 PM
You have to tell the girl that you are 'with' right now that you are not interested in her anymore, before you go off getting to know her friend better. These both will probably hurt her feelings, but its better to be honest then to sneak around or lie

talaniman
Sep 7, 2009, 03:18 PM
No way do you avoid drama, by dumping a girl for her friend. Break up with the g/f, and lay low for a while. Hate to be you when they both find out what a rat you are.


We hooked up and she took it as we were dating so I went with it

Not very honest of you, so you're as to blame as anyone, for leading her on, and taking advantage of the situation.

Fr_Chuck
Sep 7, 2009, 07:18 PM
Moved to teen section

shazamataz
Sep 7, 2009, 09:56 PM
Wow, my suggestion would be to break up with your girlfriend and stay away from both of them.

If your girlfriends friend is true to her then she would not go out with you anyway.
You do not date your friends exes, unspoken rule of good friendship!

Not only that but if she did agree to go out with you then all you would be doing is causing those two girls to fight and end their friendship over the "brain in your pants" as it seems the one up top is not working very well at the moment.