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mona93
Sep 6, 2009, 01:55 PM
So I like this guy from my class and I don't know if he likes me back.We don't speak much because he is
Surrounded by girls and I feel like I don't stand a chance.We are in holiday now and we have met in a club and I didn't say hi.Later we spoke on the messenger and he was pretty disturbed because I didn't say hi... I tough he wouldn't care... and after some time he said hi on the messenger again but I wasn't at the computer and I didn't answer... he has a girlfriend but she is in italy and they see each other once a year and all the people say theyr not going to last... anyway what do you think?

redhed35
Sep 6, 2009, 01:57 PM
He has a girlfriend,he's off limits.

Simple as that.

britEl
Sep 6, 2009, 02:40 PM
Agreed! He's off limits. Just because his girlfriend isn't in the same country as he is does not mean he's suddenly available. You do not want to get yourself involved into something like that.

little_n_lost
Sep 6, 2009, 07:21 PM
Ok guys chill just because he has a girlfriend doesn't make him off limits full stop just less available. You'll have to talk to him about his relationship with her to see if it's off limits. Just get talking to him and get to know him more and you may find he's not really what he seems but if you still like him and you become more like friends ask him about his relationship see how it is if there are doubts etc. If it seems water tight and solid he's in love etc stay friends but keep a small distance try not to get heart broken. If they're having trounle guide him as a friend in the best way possible and you never know he may become more than a friend. I don't suggest trying to manipulate him or to break up his relationship with this girl as that may end up worse for you. Best of luck hope I helped.