Im a 25 year old wife and mother of two wonderful children and I am well I really don't know what to call it but confused I started having seizures in 2006 now every body is shooting my dreams down because they say I'm not well.. I didn't get proposed to like other women, I didn't have a wedding because he cancelled it because he thought I wouldn't be ready because I was to have the baby 3 1/2 months later mind you I didn't know I was in labor because I didn't feel any pain and when I got to the hospital I was 6 1/2 cm dialated with both kids and no medication with either and was feeling great afterwards. Well I wanted to start working again and they meaning my family didn't want me to do that because they say I'm not well. (You know how older family members are)Then when I decided to go back to school to get my CNA and they are telling me its going to be too much to raise kids, have a family, work and go to school. Are they right ? I am a very strong person I feel that I can do it but the are not encouraging me at all!:(:confused::mad: Please what do you think?/

I'm confused - why are "these people" determining what you do with your life?

I'm assuming you are married, you and your husband are self supporting, you live by yourselves.

I don't understand how everyone else got involved.

You are the only person who knows if you can complete your education and raise a family at the same time. I am, however, confused because your other posts appear to contradict what you have posted here concerning your schooling, family and marriage: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/scholarships-financial-aid/there-still-hope-392997.html#post1959796; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-family-people/how-do-tell-ex-sister-law-she-has-move-out-368677.html#post1961422; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marriage/should-stll-have-wedding-368717.html#post1817684;

I don't know what the truth is.