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mum to be
Sep 2, 2009, 02:19 PM
I'm 33 years old mum of 2 children and have a stable life.
Recently I have found out I am pregnant again with the same partner bit I am seriously considering adoption.
Please can some one point me in the right direction and help me on how this is done, or any other suggestions for me.

Justwantfair
Sep 2, 2009, 02:45 PM
Adoption is a wonderful gift.
I think you should give a more complete background, so that we can best help you with your situation.
You stated that you already have children with this partner, is the relationship bad?
Why do you want to place the baby for adoption?
Open or closed adoption?
Do you feel that you can emotionally handle the separation?
How does your partner feel about the idea of adoption?

Synnen
Sep 2, 2009, 04:33 PM
You should see a counselor that specializes in adoption issues.

No one can tell you how to make this choice.

Adoption was the best thing I ever did in life---and the hardest to live with.