Hi I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 10 months.. everything was going good until 3weeks ago.. were I couldn't meet her.. and she said she wanted a break.. so we were OK until today were she told me that she doesn't love me the way she used to.. and she wants to end our realationship.. I love her to bits and will never love anyone else.. plzzz could you help me win her back.. thanks.. x

Oh man I feel for you, we are all here because it happened one way or another to us. The best thing to do is to back off and don't do any silly stuf like stalking her, calling her, sms, email, etc. etc. Try to relax a little bit and come here to vent. Give yourself some days to let the shock wear off. We are here for you, many of us. Everything is going to be allright.

Hey,for now there's not much you can do.
She said its over.
It's a bitter pill to swallow right now,but it will get easier.

If you don't mind me asking what age are you?

OK but its like she's my whole world.. I'm 18..

Take it easy and read about N C in the forum stickies.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/no-chat-speak-no-text-talk-303157.html (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/no-chat-speak-no-text-talk-303157.html)

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Hi just to let you know my girlfriend has agreed to speak to me, and sort it out.. what shall I say.. thanks.. x

Listen to what she has to say.stay calm.

Yes stay calm. Don't start judging her or pointing fingers. Let her speak and listen to what she has to say. She may just want to explain in a better way why she wants to end the relationship. At least give her that. This might help you in the end.

hi i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 10 months.. everything was going good until 3weeks ago.. were i couldnt meet her.. and she said she wanted a break.. so we were ok until today were she told me that she doesn't love me the way she used to.. and she wants to end our realationship.. i love her to bits and will never luv anyone else.. plzzz could you help me win her back.. thanks..x

Dude listen to me with an open hear firstly:


Whenever a woman tells you she needs "SPACE OR A BREAK" from you. Whats happening is that either she is LOSING INTEREST OR SHES ALREADY LOST ALL INTEREST...mostly the latter.

You then told said that then yall were ok: (This ok thing interpreted by me)


Yall was never okay...remember "She needed a break from you." For an extended time before this incident things was NOT okay! You just didn't see it! When she told you she needed a break..."IT WAS OVER THEN." Anything after that was just her weaning herself off of you. Either you got too familiar with this girl or yall spend way too much time together, but whatever the case may be she fell out of love.

There's no winning her back buddy!! Drop her and go NO CONTACT... AND work on yourself... and learn from this experience. Count it as a loss and move on.


"ROMANTIC LOVE IS ALWAYS CONDITIONAL...ITS HAS TO BE MAINTAINED...THE GUY SHE FELL IN LOVE WITH...WASN'T THE SAME GUY LATER ON IN THE RELATIONSHIP..."

OK thnks.. she said that there will be a chance that we get back together.. if not now then in the future..

ok thnks.. She said that there will be a chance that we get back 2gether.. If not now then in the future..

put no value in that sir!! Its over buddy!! And if she happens to come back around to you:

Reject her... move on!! Too many other beautiful angels out there sir!!

I interpret that as meaning she wants you to be available when she wants you to be.dont put your life on hold.move on.get your life back on track.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/no-chat-speak-no-text-talk-303157.html (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/no-chat-speak-no-text-talk-303157.html)

I think you see what she says, but fair warning, making her so important in your life, when you are not the same in hers, is a big mistake.

Also read the link above, and try to communicate with out the text/chat style of writing.